brownb83
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I hope you don't mind if I steal this.
Go head. lol. I say it alll day well because it's true.
I hope you don't mind if I steal this.
I knew you were going to come in here talking bout some grits! lol!Any random can throw hot water. Sacrificing a pot of delicious grits means the love of a good woman was squandered.
Oh well.
Better luck with his next Becky.
...and they talk about how angry "we" get. Bet he would have took a good cussin' out over a pot of boiling water.
I can understand her feeling violent esp during a pregnancy and I could understand her hitting him. But using boiling water? The level of cruelty involved is just beyond anything I can understand. She sounds like a psychopath.
There are too many of these types of situations across America - what I see is a lack of resilience and the inability to cope with hurts and disappointments. So the only way to handle failures is to yell and destroy with no concern for the consequences.
Any random can throw hot water. Sacrificing a pot of delicious grits means the love of a good woman was squandered.
Oh well.
Better luck with his next Becky.
If it was their sons, cousins, fathers, nephews, etc they'd be out for blood. But because they don't know the person, it's ok with them.Aggravated Assault? That's it? She should be charged with attempted murder. I don't condone any type of violent behavior unless you are physically protecting yourself. Regardless of how much they argued, even if he cheated on her, she could have left. That man is someone's father and son. If the situation was reversed and he poured boiling water on her because, you know, some women can push you over the edge like that too, there would be all kinds of unanimous outcries about how wrong he was. I guess what happens to black men only matters if they're your sons (even if he's with a Becky) or husbands. They're not all bad.
Girl, two out of three of my brothers and all of my male cousins and uncles are overdue a hot grits wake up call. They'll be alright, just walk it off.If it was their sons, cousins, fathers, nephews, etc they'd be out for blood. But because they don't know the person, it's ok with them.
There ain't nothing a man can do to make me put a pot of water or grits on the stove, WAIT for it to boil and then throw it on him.Girl, two out of three of my brothers and all of my male cousins and uncles are overdue a hot grits wake up call. They'll be alright, just walk it off.
So terrible. Him on the field and her mugshot.
:lmao:Pain old hot water screams unimaginative and lazy. Grits imho is a real game changer in that it can transform the worst heathen into a saint. I wonder if Al Green's girlfriend Mary was the first person to weaponize the humble grit.
Chile never say never... :hmph:There ain't nothing a man can do to make me put a pot of water or grits on the stove, WAIT for it to boil and then throw it on him.
Yea, them close-set eyes are a dead giveaway. Something awry is always going on inside of eyes like thems.She looks mentally unwell. She has that demented look going on. If she boiled the water that suggests pre-meditation. How is she not charged with a more sever crime?
And they say a watched pot never boils! I'm wondering, did she use a hot-plate in her dorm room or did she use the microwave and pour the water into a pot? Now with the microwave theory, you would have to heat several batches of water to fill up a pot. Then I'm imagining her walking all wide-legged and fast to his dorm room to pour it on him. omg SaawwyI can't even imagine the kinda crazy it takes to stand over a stove, wait for water to boil, then pour it on someone
Ma'am, I'm not bout to be in jail locked up, on an episode of snapped, while he is hugged up with another woman and my child is being raised by another woman calling her mommy, or he is 6 ft under. Y'all can hee hee and haa haa and high five each other over attempted murder because y'all can't control yalls temper. I'm good.:lmao:
Chile never say never... :hmph:
Yea, them close-set eyes are a dead giveaway. Something awry is always going on inside of eyes like thems.
And they say a watched pot never boils! I'm wondering, did she use a hot-plate in her dorm room or did she use the microwave and pour the water into a pot? Now with the microwave theory, you would have to warm several batches if water to fill up a pot. Then I'm imagining her walking all wide-legged and fast to his dorm room to pour it on him. omg Saawwy
Pain old hot water screams unimaginative and lazy. Grits imho is a real game changer in that it can transform the worst heathen into a saint. I wonder if Al Green's girlfriend Mary was the first person to weaponize the humble grit.
See she premeditated that. It's different if she was cooking and he hit her or he admitted to abusing their child right then and there and she picked up the pot and threw it. She didn't do that. She went in the kitchen, put a pot on the stove, waited till it boiled and then threw it on him.@NOEChic Girl, you said "there ain't nothing a man can do..." that's what got my attention. I know you mean anything "petty" but my mind went further and I'm thinking like sheeeit there's a few things I'll gladly go to jail for, for protecting.
I'm just having fun with it, I hope the young man makes a full recovery.
That's not what she told the police.I bet he hit her first
So terrible. Him on the field and her mugshot.
That's why you got to make it look like an accident.Ma'am, I'm not bout to be in jail locked up, on an episode of snapped, while he is hugged up with another woman and my child is being raised by another woman calling her mommy, or he is 6 ft under. Y'all can hee hee and haa haa and high five each other over attempted murder because y'all can't control yalls temper. I'm good.
I wonder if he'll use this time and rethink dating/marrying Beckys. I also wonder if he's one of the black males who doesn't date a black woman because they're so "bitter and angry". Now, he knows the ABW theory is a MYTH.
More proof some males may want to take the time to scrutinize what they penetrate. After all, it's a "Thin Line Between Love and Hate..."
I don't wish this on my worst enemy & pray that he makes a full recovery.
I can't tell what she is. The mugshot actually gave me more Conchita than Becky but I looked up the etymology of Gaspar and it's a common name all over Europe and the ME.