You would assume that your son killed his fiancé because she hadn’t called her family? I would assume that they broke up and she was sulking… I mean who knows what he actually told them. But I don’t think it is normal to jump to “my son is a MURDERER get out!” They also don’t know that he was the last person to see her alive.There is no way I would allow my son to be in my house and remain silent about his missing fiancee, when he was the last person with her and most likely killed her.
I would have kicked him out day one when he returned without her. She lived with his parents too and he drove HER van all the way home without her.
You would assume that your son killed his fiancé because she hadn’t called her family? I would assume that they broke up and she was sulking… I mean who knows what he actually told them. But I don’t think it is normal to jump to “my son is a MURDERER get out!” They also don’t know that he was the last person to see her alive.
I am assuming that he killed her because I don’t give random white dudes the benefit of the doubt, but I don’t think that it unreasonable for his parents not to assume that. The police haven’t even released a cause of death or arrest warrant yet.
Absolutely...His parents are trash too.
Thanks for explaining this so well. I didn't have the strength.would assume that my son was a protector and would protect his fiancee. Since he didn't sound the alarm that something happened, he didn't stay in the area where he last saw her , he drove thousands of miles in her vehicle without her, and is now not talking about.
What remains?I feel bad for her family because stuff like this leaves a void that’s never filled. A cousin of mine disappeared 10 years ago. His parents assume he’s dead but they don’t know. No one talks about it but I know they still hope he’s alive and turns up one day.
Hopefully those remains are hers and they can at least move to a grieving stage instead of hoping for a miracle months and years later. Obviously best case scenario is that she’s alive but that seems unlikely.
If a cop asks me if I have the time, my response is to speak with my attorney. I would not talk to the police under these circumstances.If my daughter was missing, I would want him to talk. I am keeping that same energy if he were my son. He needs to speak up and make it make sense how your fiancee is missing when yall were on a road trip together, he didn't call the police, and now he is back home without her. It doesn't make sense.
What remains?
I thought it was possible that he left her alive and acting crazy in the woods, where she was killed by a stranger/committed suicide/was eaten by mountain lions, but his taking the van is what made me think that he killed her. Because what woman is going to let you leave her with no shelter in the woods? But then the fact that he was home for so long before he disappeared is weird too. Because if you killed someone would you really just go home and act like nothing happened for 2 weeks before running?IMO, I knew he was guilty and that she wasn't going to rare well from this.
I've personally knew of a sitchu' close to this scenario. But instead he beat her and left her suffering whilst he drove her vehilce across two states to their former residence for the "holiday weekend". The authorities had to be dispatched to their home where they found her badly beaten and pregnant.
It is an Weak @ick Move to leave with a woman's car and go back to momma'n'em's house; and offer no explination as to where the woman is. EVEN IF IT's TRUE that SHE was mentally unstable, hop your grown man arse on a bus, plane, or train and leave; you are not entitled to her vehicle...(or her body). {I wonder whose credit cards this KANG used to pay for gas}
Street rules say "YES!" to the bolded. Don't bolt until you have to; plus in some states (i'm not looking their specifics up) you can't be charged with murder unless there's a body;..... Because what woman is going to let you leave her with no shelter in the woods? But then the fact that he was home for so long before he disappeared is weird too. Because if you killed someone would you really just go home and act like nothing happened for 2 weeks before running?
There were some other women who were murdered while camping around the same time and place who complained about a creepy guy in the woods. But for some reason they didn’t listen to their instincts and leave either.The sad part is she missed the red flag and warning sign which ultimately caused her to lose her life. The last red flag was when the police were called in August when he locked her out of her car and she was crying. That was a sign, that this is not it abort mission, and she should have headed back home without him instead of him heading home without her.
May she RIP.
I already told everyone- don't call me to get rid of a body- I'm snitching the first chance I get.Street rules say "YES!" to the bolded. Don't bolt until you have to; plus in some states (i'm not looking their specifics up) you can't be charged with murder unless there's a body;
Plus: he may have a relative on the Police force that gave him a heads-up that remains have been found. or He needed to get some $$ together before running
Either way he's not the first Criminal to play this game. As a Parent these are support choices I hope to never have to make; but then my kids already know that I ain't about that life. I'll be supportive and offer wise counsel but there's some bullshiggidy you'd be on your own with.
Interesting.There were some other women who were murdered while camping around the same time and place who complained about a creepy guy in the woods. But for some reason they didn’t listen to their instincts and leave either.
Details released in deaths of newlywed couple at campsite
MOAB, Utah (AP) — A newlywed couple that was gunned down near a Utah campsite had told friends that they were afraid of a “creepy man” that was near their camp prior to their death, according to newly unsealed police documents.apnews.com
Here is the police video of Gabby and Brian in case anyone else is as nosey as I am. She was the one cited for domestic violence, but he seemed a little off to me as well.
They gave him a restraining order against her that he had to go to the police station the next day and release. He was the only one with any injuries and she said that he didn’t hit her but that she hit him. Maybe she was abused and lying, but if he’d wanted to press charges they’d have arrested her.Interesting.
The 911 caller that drove past the van when it was parked stated he was slapping her (that's specifcally why they called). I assume that was either before this traffic stop and not after he picks her up the next day. But what if the slapping happened the next day? Hmmm ...
I will say the cops treated them both respectfully. Would be great if that was how all of these traffic stop interactions went.
ETA - she was not cited for DV.
Not picking on you but that's not a bad thing. If a black woman disappears, I don't care who sits in jail or worse. Fornicate 'Em.They gave the fiancé the benefit of the doubt and he took off. If he had been black he would have been at least in jail or WORSE.
I’m talking about Gabby with a black guy.Not picking on you but that's not a bad thing. If a black woman disappears, I don't care who sits in jail or worse. Fornicate 'Em.
No they dropped all that. Toward the end of the bodycam video they said they weren't citing her. All they did was take him to a hotel and left her with the van. And they "encouraged" them not to speak until the next day.They gave him a restraining order against her that he had to go to the police station the next day and release. He was the only one with any injuries and she said that he didn’t hit her but that she hit him. Maybe she was abused and lying, but if he’d wanted to press charges they’d have arrested her.