PatDM'T
Well-Known Member
I was thinkingThe look on Wayne’s face tells me he got the point. Lol
the same thing.
He may be corrupt
but he's not stupid.
Stupid is saved
for his followers.
I was thinkingThe look on Wayne’s face tells me he got the point. Lol
Thank you!I don't think it was posted, but I have seen it. Great demonstration of just how backwards we are...
Especially if you mean the extracurriculars like Band, Sports, Honor societies, and Chess club, Library club, etc.School is not for socialization. It’s pretty much like prison. Extracurricular activities provide better opportunities for socializing, since one joins a group or activity with other like-minded individuals.
Our school district has a day camp for talented and gifted/high achieving students. My kids will be attending this summer. The district has decreased the cost, provide free breakfast and lunch, and are doing what they can to open it up to lower income families that have kids who fit the academic requirements. The unfortunate thing is there is no transportation. And the camp starts at 9. So, unless you have someone who can get you there at 9 and pick you up by 3, you can't attend. And if your parent drops you off early or picks you up after 3, they have to pay the before care/after care rates. And at that adds up!Unfortunately, while I don't think its the schools RESPONSIBILITY to coddle and chase kids, the reality is, the conditions of this country has worsened economically and job-wise for low and middle class Americans, there is no immediate solution that will be a one-size fits all. Parents will have more and more limited birth control choices, parents will be stuck working dead-end jobs and needing them to pay for daycare costs that keep rising, and are harder to find. Parents are worn and distracted. I knew it was bad when about 3-4 (or was in 2 years?) years ago schools in some districts were doing a "School Supper/Dinner" in addition to school lunch and school breakfast. They barely have enough left mentally after a crappy day at an underpaid job to offer their own kids help with homework, a chance to vent about the day or even share successes. Kids with little school friends rely on their parents to fill in that socialization gap. Parents today have been tapped out. It already takes an army of reserves for my husband and I to pull it together for OUR child's HW. Imagine a family with 2-3....shoot 6-7 school aged kids needing help with less resources and income.
Schools present an opportunity to at least have some kind of check in policy when kids may anonymously say "i'm okay, or I'm struggling" and they get a free pass to a guidance counselor for say 1 hour a day during the year. I used to think we can and should shuffle it back to the parents but its unrealistic for a good bit of these kids. Some of these kids were doomed by the time they started HS. Shoot MS. Looking at the 8th grader in the story upthread about the yearbook and you can see in his eyes that there is something missing there ALREADY.
Maybe grants so parents can pay for extracurriculars and help with transportation? Kids NEED socialization at that age with peers.
I would suggest you homeschool next school year..Our school district has a day camp for talented and gifted/high achieving students. My kids will be attending this summer. The district has decreased the cost, provide free breakfast and lunch, and are doing what they can to open it up to lower income families that have kids who fit the academic requirements. The unfortunate thing is there is no transportation. And the camp starts at 9. So, unless you have someone who can get you there at 9 and pick you up by 3, you can't attend. And if your parent drops you off early or picks you up after 3, they have to pay the before care/after care rates. And at that adds up!
I've posted before on this board that becoming debt free and becoming a SAHM was in anticipation of how the world was moving. And if schools get too crazy, I can pull my kids and home school if needed.
I saw it too, but couldn’t get a handle on things like I wanted. Now I know I have until Fall.^^^ In similar fashion, between seeing the need to step in and oversee my father’s glaucoma care, I peeped that something was going to happen in 2020 and fought like hell to get a flexible 100% WFH job that I controlled in March of 2019.
I’m a former teacher, last year was my last year teaching after 5 years. I had a great district, got along with my coworkers and only left because I’m in grad school. I was just asked to sub for a former coworker of mine who’ll be out for a week, and I wanna say no because of this. It was always in the back of my mind that a school shooting could happen. You could be the nicest, best teacher and that means nothing when a stranger could come in and kill at random.
This country is and always was unsustainable.
My close guy friend quit subbing after Uvalde. Not worth it.Against my better judgment, I took the subbing job. It's day 2 and we've had not one but TWO lockdowns ON THE SAME DAMN DAY as bullets were found in the bathroom. The superintendent literally announced the ending of the first lockdown after just over an hour, and during transition, as kids were going to their next class and finally using the bathroom, they announced another lockdown not even 3 minutes later. What. The.
I let one little Black girl use the bathroom during the transition and she was gone while the next one was announced. She must have been so scared using the bathroom and being so far from class. Thankfully she went to another class and she's safe there.
My close guy friend quit subbing after Uvalde. Not worth it.
Would you beSource: Police never tried to open door to classrooms where Uvalde gunman had kids trapped — San Antonio Express-News
Surveillance footage shows that police never tried to open a door to two classrooms at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde in the 77 minutes between the time a gunman entered the rooms and massacred 21 people and officers finally stormed in and killed him, according to a law enforcement source...apple.news
I appreciate you.Updated! Sorry y’all- I can be lazy and thoughtless ant times.
I'm beginning to feel the same way. I think people have an idea in their heads that the children got hit in the chest and fell to the ground with blood slowly coming out of a small wound. They don't realize that their bodies were destroyed and that some could only be identified by their shoes.I'm tired of reality being kept under wraps. People need to see that things don't happen the way they do in the movies. Show it. Show it all. I didn't feel this way before but I even support making public the pictures of the children who were ripped apart and decapitated by the fire power of an AR-15. It's not the same thing, but Emmett Till's mother made her point by putting it all on display.
We're going to come out of all of this with possibly some minor tweaks when real change is needed.