I have been on this journey as well...
I am 60% natural 40% bkt'ed on texlaxed hair (which is STRAIGHT when wet).. so with super wavy roots and straight ends.. imagine my dilemma...
I have tried..
HV Whipped jelly.. made my hair crunch
Blended Beauty Silk Shake - really liked.. not enough hold
Blended Beauty Curly Pudding - LOVED
Blended Beauty Light Styling lotion - love
Curls Milkshake.. used to work alright but now gets frizzy too fast
Curls whipped cream - did a good job.. need to revisit
Since I have finer hair.. I'm scared to try "BUTTAHS".. I don't want to look like a greasy mess...
My thing is finding a nice sealing serum .. right now I like SSI's jojoba serum...
But I'm taking notes.. Here's a pic from a good one from a few weeks ago.. I did a twist out and then bantu knotted them and sat under the dryer... even though this is against the "t/o rules".. I can't let mine get all the way dry.. they'll be too tight.. and won't give me that wavy effect.. another member's whose hair I loved used SSI's macadamia nut gel which I absolutely love for hers and it was beautiful...