Hair Molesters Are Real...(no joke)

melissa-bee

Well-Known Member
I would have called the police

This was taken from another hair forum, posted just three days ago.

I had to go on a long metro ride and bus ride today- half of the journey was spent with my husband, but after I got off, I was alone.

I took my bun down, but had hard gunk in it... At first I thought it was honey, because I wash my face with it in the morning... But then realized it couldn't be that because I wash my face with my hair already up in a bun. I've just been trying to comb it, and keep finding sections which are HARD, clear, and like I have dried gel in my hair.

I then remembered that I had to keep turning around on the metro, because the guy behind me kept bumping my bun... I was alone in this metro car. I think that this stuff in my hair might be... I don't think I really have to spell it out. Unless he decided to put hard gel in my hair, then I can't figure out what else it could be...

My husband looked at it... he thinks it might be... that guys... yeah. I'm right.

I'm really really freaking grossed out. This is the second time a man has done something perverted to my hair. The first time was when I had waist length hair and always wore it down and felt tugging on my hair and turned around to find a man sniffing it- and who smiled when he saw me. That was the reason I cut my hair in the first place... I don't know what to do anymore... I already wear my hair up.

I'm pretty freaked/scared right now... I know it's silly because this already happened... but I keep being targeted because of my hair. I don't know what to do. This makes me feel dirty.

Going to go shampoo my hair now... And have a cry.

EDIT:
A big thank you to everyone who responded, and who has supported me/given me advice. I'm going to be ok. Not going to cut my hair. I'm just going to be more careful on the metro, and everywhere else for that matter.

Thank you again! You LHC people rock!
 

NappyNelle

Kinky Coily 4A, Fine Strands, WSL
That is so absolutely disgusting. If she remembers what that man looked like, she should file a police report. OMG I want to smack him and kick him in the crotch.
 

RayRayFurious

New Member
O.M.G. That whole situation is scary. Especially because her and the guy were the ONLY ones on that car. What if he tried something else. Ladies, we have definitely got to be careful and paying attention to our surroundings. But honestly, I don't know what I would have done in that situation.
 

MyAngelEyez~C~U

Well-Known Member
That is flat out disgusting. Poor lady, I think I would get back on the Metro just hoping to find his behind....:boxing::boxing::brucelee::bat::catfight::killlurk::210::axehunter::gunner7:



:look:
 

melissa-bee

Well-Known Member
O.M.G. That whole situation is scary. Especially because her and the guy were the ONLY ones on that car. What if he tried something else. Ladies, we have definitely got to be careful and paying attention to our surroundings. But honestly, I don't know what I would have done in that situation.

Same here. You can state what you would do when your sitting at home reading it. But when you're actually in the current position, the police doesn't even enter your mind until it's partially too late.
 

Philippians413

Well-Known Member
Don't they have cameras on the metro? I know they do here in MD. I think I would've called the cops and had them search the tapes to see if they could find this guy.

I remember reading a story about a guy putting his "stuff" in some yougurt and handing it out at the grocery store as a free sample. I don't know how many people ate the yougurt before they arrested the guy.
 

candy626

New Member
Never heard of something like this in my life. If it's true, that's gross.

Idk though, if someone's hair is back in a bun I'm not sure what the motivation would be to do something like that..gotta be careful when you ride the metro though...
 

carletta

Active Member
right after I wash my hair out.... ME AND MY 9 WOULD BE TAKING ANOTHER METRO RIDE !!!!!!!! CASE CLOSED !!!!!!!!!! HE WOULDN'T HAVE TO WORRY BOUT IT NO MO !!!!!!!!
 

JeterCrazed

New Member
So the new saying will go, "You can't tell pu$$y from a hole in a donut bun."

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NJoy

Here I grow again!
Wayment. So what are you saying? I mean, I know what she's saying it was but, how the...? Erm, I mean, when did he..? Um...how to say this? :perplexed Did he...and just wipe it on her or.... Come on. What are y'all sayin?

Kn0ttyByNatur3. Can you break it down 'cuz I don't get it. I don't know how this could happen on the train.

And if they were the only ones on the train after hubby got off, why didn't she move to another seat instead of having ol' dude right behind her? Not her fault. I'm just wondering. I'm keeping an eye on everybody if I'm alone on the train.

This is disgusting!! I've never heard of anything like this. The sniffer? Ok. But Jack in the back? Um... I done heard it all now. (still not sure what I'm hearing tho)
 

HighAspirations

Well-Known Member
carletta said:
right after I wash my hair out.... ME AND MY 9 WOULD BE TAKING ANOTHER METRO RIDE !!!!!!!! CASE CLOSED !!!!!!!!!! HE WOULDN'T HAVE TO WORRY BOUT IT NO MO !!!!!!!!

My reaction exactly
 

Natirelle

Well-Known Member
Wayment. So what are you saying? I mean, I know what she's saying it was but, how the...? Erm, I mean, when did he..? Um...how to say this? :perplexed Did he...and just wipe it on her or.... Come on. What are y'all sayin?

Kn0ttyByNatur3. Can you break it down 'cuz I don't get it. I don't know how this could happen on the train.

And if they were the only ones on the train after hubby got off, why didn't she move to another seat instead of having ol' dude right behind her? Not her fault. I'm just wondering. I'm keeping an eye on everybody if I'm alone on the train.

This is disgusting!! I've never heard of anything like this. The sniffer? Ok. But Jack in the back? Um... I done heard it all now. (still not sure what I'm hearing tho)
Yeah Im not following it either. Esp when 'buddy' continually kept bumping her bun. Like hello..... shouldnt that been a red flag to check things to or get up to move. Maybe its just me when someone touch my hair I have to touch my hair, its just a natural reaction.
 

Kn0ttyByNatur3

Well-Known Member
NJoy The videos I seen happen on near empty buses, trains and etc. Usually the dude is standing behind a woman's seat holding onto the a handle bars. He's really quiet as he is doing his thing and doesn't literally touch the woman until he is ready to empty himself on her hair. 99% of the time the woman doesn't even notice what's happening behind her. Its kinda creepy. :nono:

 

LunaGorgeous

Active Member
:nono:...Now I'm convinced that there must be some sort of worldwide cult of men who hole up somewhere and do nothing but think of ways to sexually abuse/degrade women, and then share their ideas. That guy must have been one of their leaders.
 

BostonMaria

Well-Known Member
Wow this is very disturbing. What city does this woman live in? I am from Boston but travel to DC and ATL on the regular. I'll be wearing my baseball cap on the train from now on! LOL

ETA: she needs to call the police and report this
 

FroFab

New Member
I wouldn't be cleaning anything off. I'd walk into a police station and file a sexual assault charge and tell them to collect the DNA from my hair.
 

NJoy

Here I grow again!
NJoy The videos I seen happen on near empty buses, trains and etc. Usually the dude is standing behind a woman's seat holding onto the a handle bars. He's really quiet as he is doing his thing and doesn't literally touch the woman until he is ready to empty himself on her hair. 99% of the time the woman doesn't even notice what's happening behind her. Its kinda creepy. :nono:


O...M...G...! Just when u think the world is crazy enough, more craziness shows up to the party. That is sick. Just nauseating. :nono:
 

melissa-bee

Well-Known Member
Wow this is very disturbing. What city does this woman live in? I am from Boston but travel to DC and ATL on the regular. I'll be wearing my baseball cap on the train from now on! LOL

ETA: she needs to call the police and report this

I read further on in the thread and she did report it a few days later but she felt that the police didn't take her seriously.
 
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