2013 Relaxed Hair Buddy Thread

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EnExitStageLeft

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@soonergirl and @Cattypus1 THANKS LADIES! :hug2:

To do this braidout I used a mixture of these two "techniques":

This is @TeeBee's vid. I ADORE her channel and I'm about to cop some CURLS because of her as we speak :lachen:

I did multiple mini braids like she did to get the definition (about 13). I also used the same styling agent Camille Rose Naturals Aloe Whipped Butter Gel which is BOMB.COM btw. Softness and hold :love:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cR00YAJSSd0 (skip to the end for the braiding and unraveling...pure hair porn :yep:)

Now to handle my ends I used the Youtubers method, which is using flexi-rods. Basically I did a braid and curl.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XvXqFltE58g
 

klsjackson

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Mande30 mschristine divachyk

Hey ladies!! It's been awhile since I posted and I'm checking in. How are each of you doing? I am currently 9 weeks post (by accident). I intended to relax at 8 weeks, but my stylist was on vacation. I am not feeling this new growth at all and I am having some issues with the underprocessed areas. I really want her to do a corrective, but she does not do them. So, based on those two things, I am re-thinking self relaxing. If she can't take me tomorrow, then self-relaxing it is.
 

Mande30

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@Mande30 @mschristine @divachyk

Hey ladies!! It's been awhile since I posted and I'm checking in. How are each of you doing? I am currently 9 weeks post (by accident). I intended to relax at 8 weeks, but my stylist was on vacation. I am not feeling this new growth at all and I am having some issues with the underprocessed areas. I really want her to do a corrective, but she does not do them. So, based on those two things, I am re-thinking self relaxing. If she can't take me tomorrow, then self-relaxing it is.

klsjackson

Are you cutting your stretch to 8 weeks from now on? I relaxed 2 weeks ago, at 11 weeks. I wanted to wait until 12 but I was not going to find the time. Each time that I self relax I get better. I just note what I do and try to improve if needed. Since I have been self relaxing I have not gotten my hair bone straight, more like 80 - 85% (not at all texlaxed). I have grown to like this. It helps with the "limp" look and it makes dealing with the multiple textures very manageable.
 

klsjackson

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klsjackson

Are you cutting your stretch to 8 weeks from now on? I relaxed 2 weeks ago, at 11 weeks. I wanted to wait until 12 but I was not going to find the time. Each time that I self relax I get better. I just note what I do and try to improve if needed. Since I have been self relaxing I have not gotten my hair bone straight, more like 80 - 85% (not at all texlaxed). I have grown to like this. It helps with the "limp" look and it makes dealing with the multiple textures very manageable.

Mande30: I would like to stretch for 10 to 12 weeks, but the different textures are causing too much breakage. Also, I have been dealing with product buildup and no products, I mean NONE would work on my hair! I finally did an ACV rinse and it removed all the buildup and it was like I had a new head of hair. I have finally realized that I will no longer be able to use my beloved Chi Silk Infusion. It is the only product I use with silicones and it think it was causing the build up on my hair. So, between the protein overload and product buildup I have been very frustrated and unhappy with my hair for the last 3 weeks. Hopefully things will change after this relaxer and I will be back on my quest for APL.
 

Mande30

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@Mande30: I would like to stretch for 10 to 12 weeks, but the different textures are causing too much breakage. Also, I have been dealing with product buildup and no products, I mean NONE would work on my hair! I finally did an ACV rinse and it removed all the buildup and it was like I had a new head of hair. I have finally realized that I will no longer be able to use my beloved Chi Silk Infusion. It is the only product I use with silicones and it think it was causing the build up on my hair. So, between the protein overload and product buildup I have been very frustrated and unhappy with my hair for the last 3 weeks. Hopefully things will change after this relaxer and I will be back on my quest for APL.

@klsjackson @mschristine
Wow, you could not find anything (except for ACV) to get rid of the buildup?...ORS Aloe Shampoo and Cantu regular shampoo have worked very well on build-up for me. I just look for a shampoo that has all types of sulfates in it. They are drying but they bust up bricks. What were you using the Chi Silk Infusion for?....Well one thing is for sure, our team knows how to rock a protein overload....I think between us we have had at LEAST 6 this year. :nono:
 

klsjackson

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@klsjackson @mschristine
Wow, you could not find anything (except for ACV) to get rid of the buildup?...ORS Aloe Shampoo and Cantu regular shampoo have worked very well on build-up for me. I just look for a shampoo that has all types of sulfates in it. They are drying but they bust up bricks. What were you using the Chi Silk Infusion for?....Well one thing is for sure, our team knows how to rock a protein overload....I think between us we have had at LEAST 6 this year. :nono:

LOL! Yes, we are definitely protein lovers!!! I Use ORS Creamy Aloe at least twice a month, but that buildup was going no where, especially once the protein build up kicked in. I used Suave clarifying shampoo which normally does the job, i purchased Mizani Puriphying, it works but makes my hair feel like straw. It did nothing!! I was desperately looking for an answer and sound out about ACV. Using ACV made my hair feel like silk!!! I will definitely add it to my routine at least twice a month as a final rinse. I added peppermint and tea tree oils and my scalp felt so invigorated afterwards and it got rid of my dandruff as well. Of course I used organic ACV a brand called Eden. I like the way silk infusion makes my hair feel, but evidently its not a good product for me. Oh well....
 

mschristine

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klsjackson Mande30 I'm 12 weeks post and my new growth has a life of it own..just does whatever it wants to do. Relaxing in 3 weeks but just the front and crown area..not relaxing my nape for a while. It has broken off a lot in a couple of places and I don't think it can handle another chemical process anytime soon. I'm investing in a hooded dryer, rollers and setting lotion so I can start rollersetting..my hair definitely needs a change in routine so hopefully this will help.
 

KiWiStyle

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@Cattypus1 xu93texas Altruisticoam yoli184 shortdub78 KiWiStyle soonergirl SunySydeofLyfe andSaludable84 I want to wear a curly set to my cousins wedding. But I need to prepoo, shampoo, do a reconstructive treatment, and dc w/ steam before doing so. Should I do all of this tomorrow and then rod my hair Friday on Air Dried hair or should I just rod it friday and say "**** IT" to my wash day this week?.....Hmmmmmm
Granted you have the time, I would definitely wet set on Friday. Wet sets much more defined and lasts soo much longer.

What are you wearing!!!


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EnExitStageLeft

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KiWiStyle

Most likely A black cuffed sleeve blazer, a violet dress I purchased from Macy's, black skinny waist belt and some black peep toe pumps I caught on sale a Tar-jar a while back. I thought about it today on my way home from work, but that may change because I can never seem to make a concrete decision when it comes to my wardrobe :lachen:.
 

Saludable84

Better Late Than Ugly
@Cattypus1
xu93texas
Altruisticoam
yoli184
shortdub78
KiWiStyle
soonergirl
SunySydeofLyfe
andSaludable84
I want to wear a curly set to my cousins wedding. But I need to prepoo, shampoo, do a reconstructive treatment, and dc w/ steam before doing so. Should I do all of this tomorrow and then rod my hair Friday on Air Dried hair or should I just rod it friday and say "**** IT" to my wash day this week?.....Hmmmmmm

I definitely agree with KiWiStyle. Do it all the same day. IMO, curly sets look better the same day. It may not set on second day hair correctly.
 

KiWiStyle

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KiWiStyle Most likely A black cuffed sleeve blazer, a violet dress I purchased from Macy's, black skinny waist belt and some black peep toe pumps I caught on sale a Tar-jar a while back. I thought about it today on my way home from work, but that may change because I can never seem to make a concrete decision when it comes to my wardrobe :lachen:.

Sounds cute!!

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Evolving78

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@Cattypus1
xu93texas
Altruisticoam
yoli184
shortdub78
KiWiStyle
soonergirl
SunySydeofLyfe
andSaludable84
I want to wear a curly set to my cousins wedding. But I need to prepoo, shampoo, do a reconstructive treatment, and dc w/ steam before doing so. Should I do all of this tomorrow and then rod my hair Friday on Air Dried hair or should I just rod it friday and say "**** IT" to my wash day this week?.....Hmmmmmm

I say prep now. I'm working on my hair for tomorrow!
 

Anailuj

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I'm texlaxing tomorrow my hair for the first time in 5 years!!!
Can I moisturise and seal tonight?
I'm planning to base my scalp tonight and again tomorrow as I am going to use a lye relaxer.
 

Mande30

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I'm texlaxing tomorrow my hair for the first time in 5 years!!! Can I moisturise and seal tonight? I'm planning to base my scalp tonight and again tomorrow as I am going to use a lye relaxer.
Anailuj

I m/s everyday. So I also do it on the night before a relaxer. I just make sure I don't get any product on the new growth or scalp. The oils also give your previously processed hair a layer of protection against the runoff when you rinse the relaxer. Of course I add more protection on the day.

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