I just remembered when I was APL it was the beginning of my hj I had only BCd months before and my hair was the healthiest it had ever been. It was summer so I was experimenting with lots of new styles. I especially liked to wear my hair straight, but I didn't really like the hassle of wearing my hair out.
My friend of years was really supportive she was like yea don't you dare get any relaxers lol. The longer my hair got the drier my ends got so one day I was just discussing how I was going to trim my hair -joking about how my hair was going to look lopsided lol. Long story short she offers to trim it for me and I know that she done hair dressing in college so I wasn't really bothered, I agreed and she chopped my hair off. I went from APL to EL - I couldn't even get my hair into a hairband
moral of the story never underestimate jealousy
On a brighter note 2 and a half years later in almost inches BSL ( I can taste it) and I have only recently started wearing my hair out/ down
. The other day i got my first weave check - i absolutely loved it but was humble about although i was shouting and Screaming inside lol. My homegirl , she white but she knew how much I loved to wear weaves, wigs, ponies etc we went out to the winter festival bc we hadn't seen each other in years.so we were standing waiting to go on the first ride, and we were just joking around saying I hope my shoes don't come off n she turns n whispers is it a weave - so I was like no n she was like oh a wig - so I was like no its my hair. She was checking all up in my head for tracks n pulling it lol I was laughing my head off n she was like oh my people pay for what you naturally have lol. I do love that girl lol
It gave me a little boost to think of how far I've come although my hair has got a long way to go (my two cents)