Wives: Romance Threads Just for You...We Don't Need Porn to Excite Our Husbands

Shimmie

Shimmie

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Hello Beautiful Ladies...

With all of the concerns shared about pornography in a Christian Marriage, I wanted to share with you some threads that the Lord placed on my heart a few months ago. I've been writing Romance for a long, long time, but I had to it up to the Lord and a ministry to wives has evolved and is in the making.

It was orginally on the "OT" forum, as I wasn't sure about placing it here. But here is the best place of all. For as Christians, God has given us His permission to Romance our husbands in the most beautiful and Romantic ways which He designed.

Here you will find a 'Clean Thread'.. no graphics. Yet, much fun in sharing love with your husbands.

There's even a 'Shimmie' lesson for you... :lol: Oh Yes! You will love it and so will your husband. I'll be happy to add more shimmie lessons for you if you like.

Here are the links to my Wives and Romance. You'll see that it states, 'for Wives only... Singles take notes. :lol:

For Wives Only: My favorite thread... ;)

I love post # 79... it came from my heart. What does a wife do when she's not in the mood and he is? The Lord gave this to me and I wrote it to share with the wives who 'knew' what this is like.

81--89 truly warmed my heart...The women were truly blessed.

Marriages do not have to get old. God keeps them young and revived.

http://www.longhaircareforum.com/for...t=89975&page=2

Wives Part 2 - Loving His Body: (Not graphic :nono:).

I started with his health and then an adventure in the closet; then under a table ... :lol:

http://www.longhaircareforum.com/for...ad.php?t=90162

Father's Day Romance:

(This was created for wives sharing Father's Day with his other children outside of their marriage)

http://www.longhaircareforum.com/for...ad.php?t=90268

Singles and Romance: These are simple Romance tips for singles and wives.

God gave me a prayer in this post for singles..."Fitly Joined" -- Post #4.

Link corrected: Friday, October 6, 2006 :yay:

[http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=90552&highlight=Singles+Romance

Single Ladies, do not feel left out. Just take notes and be blessed and ready...your day is on the horizon. Oh yes it is. :yep:

Enjoy Wives and Wives to be (take notes)

To you and your marriages...God's abundant blessings, forever. Amen.
 
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pebbles

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You better go 'head, Shimmie!! Whew! Someday, I'm going to make a husband very happy with the information on these threads! LOL! :lol:
 
Shimmie

Shimmie

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pebbles said:
You better go 'head, Shimmie!! Whew! Someday, I'm going to make a husband very happy with the information on these threads! LOL! :lol:
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Thank you, angel. :kiss: Your husband will be very happy.
 
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pebbles said:
You better go 'head, Shimmie!! Whew! Someday, I'm going to make a husband very happy with the information on these threads! LOL! :lol:
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I am going to keep it for my journal notes when my time come I am planning to enjoy every minute with my husband sexually. So glad sexually is closely knitted to spiritually.
 
Shimmie

Shimmie

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star said:
I am going to keep it for my journal notes when my time come I am planning to enjoy every minute with my husband sexually. So glad sexually is closely knitted to spiritually.
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Star and Pebbles, please keep me in prayer with these Romance threads.

I have a lot to share...I mean a whole lot! And more is pouring from my heart to share to Wives and Wives-to-be. God has surely entrusted me with a ministry for marriage.

But this is STILL a public forum...public access. Not that any of my material is graphic in nature.

But the information is for adults..ONLY. AND for MARRIED adults to put into immediate action and for SINGLE adults to put into their notes for when marriage comes.

This is where I need prayer for accountability as to what I post and when and where. I don't know what to do.

I have such a burden on my heart for happy marriages. I don't know it all..but I do know much to share.

I forget that I'm speaking to many people of all ages here. It's not like when I'm emailing someone privately.

I need your prayers and God's guidance to do this right. For I do have some personal things to share with Wives and Wives-to-be. In my heart and prayers, there's no such thing as a permanently single woman.

Thank you...so much.

With all my heart,
 
pebbles

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Shimmie said:
Star and Pebbles, please keep me in prayer with these Romance threads.

I have a lot to share...I mean a whole lot! And more is pouring from my heart to share to Wives and Wives-to-be. God has surely entrusted me with a ministry for marriage.

But this is STILL a public forum...public access. Not that any of my material is graphic in nature.

But the information is for adults..ONLY. AND for MARRIED adults to put into immediate action and for SINGLE adults to put into their notes for when marriage comes.

This is where I need prayer for accountability as to what I post and when and where. I don't know what to do.

I have such a burden on my heart for happy marriages. I don't know it all..but I do know much to share.

I forget that I'm speaking to many people of all ages here. It's not like when I'm emailing someone privately.

I need your prayers and God's guidance to do this right. For I do have some personal things to share with Wives and Wives-to-be. In my heart and prayers, there's no such thing as a permanently single woman.

Thank you...so much.

With all my heart,
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Shim, be at peace, sis!:)

One of the things the enemy hates the most is marriage, particularly godly marriages. Look at the power there is when two walk in agreement? If husbands and wives were in one accord, look at what damage they could do to the armies of hell who are constantly trying to destroy the lives of families! The enemy has to create a wedge between a husband and his wife in an attempt to destroy the covenant of marriage and all the blessings that come with it. And if you look at the statistics for divorce, especially how it's on the rise amongst the people of God, there can be no question that God is going to place a word in somebody and send His chosen out to minister to His people, and especially to those of us in the church.

Mike Murdock wrote a great book called The Law of Recognition, and one of the things addressed in his book is how to recognize your assignment on earth. Here are just a few things to pay attention to:

-"Your assignment on earth is to solve a problem for a person or persons." Look at Jer. 1:7: "... for thou shalt go to all that I shall send thee, and whatsoever I command thee thou shalt speak."

-"What grieves you is a clue to what you are assigned to heal and restore." Look at Neh. 1:3,4. "...the wall of Jerusalem also is broken down, and the gates thereof are burned with fire. And it came to pass, when I heard these words, that I sat down and wept, and mourned, certain days, and fasted, and prayed before the God of Heaven."

-What you love the most reveals the greates gifts you contain.
Whatever you love to talk about, think about, learn about, is a sure indication that this is the place of your assignment. This is why moses was so willing to cousel people from morning into night, because he had a a love for his people. Read Ex. 18:13.14.

I love this next one. :up:

-You will only succed when your assignment becomes an obsession.
Well, hot dog!!! See, Shimmie? :lol: Great explanation of why the Apostle Paul achieved so much during his life. Phil. 3:13,14. "This one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God In Christ Jesus."

-Your assignment will require seasons of preparation. 2Tim. 2:15. "Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the Word of Truth." Here, it's mentioned that you will experience seasons of insignificance, isolation, waiting, warfare, persecution, injustice, silene and promotion. Consider that Jesus spent 30 years preparing for 3 1/2 years of ministry.

-Your assignment will always have an enemy. Jesus told us that the servant is not above his lord. John 15:18-21. "If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you...The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted Me, they will also pesecute you."

Murdock goes on to make a very true statement: "Your enemies are as necessary as your friends. Your friends provide comfort. Your enemy provides promotion."

One of the forums that is visible to people who have not subscribed to the LHCF is the Christianity forum. And there are many who see it and read its contents. It's funny how God uses people, things, and situations to bless His children. You have a purpose and an assignment here, Shimmie, and you're walking in it. The subject of marriage is difficult for many couples, particularly for women in the area of intimacy. Many marriages fail because there was nobody available to offer wise counsel and instruction.

Trust me when I tell you, your words are blessing many, many women! They may not say anything because it's a difficult subject for many to discuss in private, let alone out in public on an open forum, but somebody needs to read this, and they're being blessed by it. All the material is presented in a non-porn manner that we can all appreciate and understand. Some of us are silently taking note. I'm telling you publically that I'm taking note! LOL!

Continue to post what the Lord has placed in your heart, knowing full well that somebody out here is being helped and blessed by the gift and insight God chose to place in you!

Much love to you, sweetie! :kiss:
 
Shimmie

Shimmie

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pebbles said:
Shim, be at peace, sis!:)

One of the things the enemy hates the most is marriage, particularly godly marriages. Look at the power there is when two walk in agreement? If husbands and wives were in one accord, look at what damage they could do to the armies of hell who are constantly trying to destroy the lives of families! The enemy has to create a wedge between a husband and his wife in an attempt to destroy the covenant of marriage and all the blessings that come with it. And if you look at the statistics for divorce, especially how it's on the rise amongst the people of God, there can be no question that God is going to place a word in somebody and send His chosen out to minister to His people, and especially to those of us in the church.

Mike Murdock wrote a great book called The Law of Recognition, and one of the things addressed in his book is how to recognize your assignment on earth. Here are just a few things to pay attention to:

-"Your assignment on earth is to solve a problem for a person or persons." Look at Jer. 1:7: "... for thou shalt go to all that I shall send thee, and whatsoever I command thee thou shalt speak."

-"What grieves you is a clue to what you are assigned to heal and restore." Look at Neh. 1:3,4. "...the wall of Jerusalem also is broken down, and the gates thereof are burned with fire. And it came to pass, when I heard these words, that I sat down and wept, and mourned, certain days, and fasted, and prayed before the God of Heaven."

-What you love the most reveals the greates gifts you contain.
Whatever you love to talk about, think about, learn about, is a sure indication that this is the place of your assignment. This is why moses was so willing to cousel people from morning into night, because he had a a love for his people. Read Ex. 18:13.14.

I love this next one. :up:

-You will only succed when your assignment becomes an obsession.
Well, hot dog!!! See, Shimmie? :lol: Great explanation of why the Apostle Paul achieved so much during his life. Phil. 3:13,14. "This one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God In Christ Jesus."

-Your assignment will require seasons of preparation. 2Tim. 2:15. "Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the Word of Truth." Here, it's mentioned that you will experience seasons of insignificance, isolation, waiting, warfare, persecution, injustice, silene and promotion. Consider that Jesus spent 30 years preparing for 3 1/2 years of ministry.

-Your assignment will always have an enemy. Jesus told us that the servant is not above his lord. John 15:18-21. "If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you...The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted Me, they will also pesecute you."

Murdock goes on to make a very true statement: "Your enemies are as necessary as your friends. Your friends provide comfort. Your enemy provides promotion."

One of the forums that is visible to people who have not subscribed to the LHCF is the Christianity forum. And there are many who see it and read its contents. It's funny how God uses people, things, and situations to bless His children. You have a purpose and an assignment here, Shimmie, and you're walking in it. The subject of marriage is difficult for many couples, particularly for women in the area of intimacy. Many marriages fail because there was nobody available to offer wise counsel and instruction.

Trust me when I tell you, your words are blessing many, many women! They may not say anything because it's a difficult subject for many to discuss in private, let alone out in public on an open forum, and the nonsubscribed readers are unable to respond, but somebody needs to read this, and they're being blessed by it. All the material is presented in a non-porn manner that we can all appreciate and understand. Some of us are silently taking note. I'm telling you publically that I'm taking note! LOL!

Continue to post what the Lord has placed in your heart, knowing full well that somebody out here is being helped and blessed by the gift and insight God chose to place in you!

Much love to you, sweetie! :kiss:
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I cannot thank God enough for you...never in the years now or the years to come when we spend Eternity with Jesus, 'face-to-face.'

But hear me now, no one has ever been more of a friend in my life, nor more of a sister, who truly knows my heart and yes my faults as well, as you have. Pebs, you who has never met me, yet you know me so well...

For this, for you, I thank God with all of my heart. In Jesus' matchless name, Amen...

God bless you, Angel :kiss: With all of my heart, again...God bless you richly.
 
pebbles

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Shimmie, several weeks back when I asked to be able to speak to you in person about all the turmoil that was taking place on the forum, I was a little apprehensive at first because I was going to ask you to do something that I really didn't have a right to ask. But instead of being upset and/or defensive, you put me at ease by your easy manner, and your willingness to follow my lead. You joked around, and made me laugh, and I came away from that situation really humbled. I wish that I could honestly say that in your position, I would have reacted the same way. Unfortunately, I can't say that I would have handled it with such class and grace.

My heart has been weighted down with such a heavy burden of late, and you've prayed for me and given me words of encouragement during this crisis, and at moments when I couldn't utter a prayer myself because the tears were choking me, you did it for me. I am as equally blessed and touched that you would share this burden with me without ever having met me or the other people involved. You have been a real blessing through it all, and for that I thank God alone, for He knew that I would be in need of your support, and He allowed our paths to collide in such a way and at at such a time. No matter what happens in the end of all of this, God is still God, and He is Sovereign. The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away. May His name be blessed always.

I am forever grateful for the gift of your friendship. You are a true woman of God, with an incredible heart of compassion for others. Though I have never met you, I want you to know that I love you dearly, my sister in Christ. :rosebud:
 
pebbles

pebbles

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Hmm, I'm not sure why that is. But I moved them all here onto the Christianity forum, so if you click on the link and that doesn't work, just search this forum and you'll find them all. :)
 
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shalom

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I have my note pad and I am writing. Don't be concerned about what others will think,:confused::confused::confused: continue with what the Lord has placed in your heart let him be your judge.:):):) Quit trippin and keep moving.


ITA W/Pebbles - Trust me when I tell you, your words are blessing many, many women! They may not say anything because it's a difficult subject for many to discuss in private, let alone out in public on an open forum, but somebody needs to read this, and they're being blessed by it. All the material is presented in a non-porn manner that we can all appreciate and understand. Some of us are silently taking note. I'm telling you publically that I'm taking note! LOL!


I'm not married yet, but hope to be soon and I want to be the God wife that my husband needs and wants me to be. I also want to be the wife God has called me to be for his plan and purpose for my life and I will take all the help I can get. Knowledge is power.
 
czyfaith77

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pebbles said:
Hmm, I'm not sure why that is. But I moved them all here onto the Christianity forum, so if you click on the link and that doesn't work, just search this forum and you'll find them all. :)
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Thank you for the quick response. I can get all except the Single's one. ;)
 
pebbles

pebbles

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You know what? I can't pull it up either. :confused: I don't know what happened. It was working just fine before. Darn!
 
BlkManWithSomeSense

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Excellent Post! I personally dont think porn has a place in marriage. I have nothing against couples trying different things to spice up their marriage but there should be limits. The object of my desire and complete focus would be my wife. I think many couples place too much emphasis on the big things ( such as more intense 'climactic' results) than focusing on the little things. Porn can seem attractive as a tutorial because of the graphic rawness but couples have something no adult movie will ever have and thats a REAL connection. Allow me to share my perspective.

There is nothing greater a woman can give to a man than her complete devotion. Mind Body and soul. She does this voluntarily and unconditionally. This is a privilage and an honor that she offers to him something no man will ever have. I know that she has taken a vow before God to be his soulmate and he should never take that declaration for granted.

There is an incomparable feeling to be in love. I say all this because sometimes it's forgotten just how special it is to be loved by a woman. Her pure presence beside me should fill me with such joy and excitement that my body would feel a thousand shivers just from her touch on my shoulders.

Life is about the subtle things. It's not about the BIG moments. It's about the day to day things that add up to a fulfilling life. Porn would seem inadequate in what she and I would require to spice things up. Perhaps if a couple took the time to learn the little things like her body, her responses, refining the value and power in just a touch,they could find the intensity they'd been seeking.

I guess what I'm saying that when you're a marriage looking to spice things up. Just kep things simple ,as if you lived in a world all by yourself with no toys or movies and all you have is just the two of you, the stars above and a long night ahead.
 
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pebbles

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BlkManWithSomeSense said:
Excellent Post! I personally dont think porn has a place in marriage. I have nothing against couples trying different things to spice up their marriage but there should be limits. The object of my desire and complete focus would be my wife. I think many couples place too much emphasis on the big things ( such as more intense 'climactic' results) than focusing on the little things. Porn can seem attractive as a tutorial because of the graphic rawness but couples have something no adult movie will ever have and thats a REAL connection. Allow me to share my perspective.

There is nothing greater a woman can give to a man than her complete devotion. Mind Body and soul. She does this voluntarily and unconditionally. This is a privilage and an honor that she offers to him something no man will ever have. I know that she has taken a vow before God to be his soulmate and he should never take that declaration for granted.

There is an incomparable feeling to be in love. I say all this because sometimes it's forgotten just how special it is to be loved by a woman. Her pure presence beside me should fill me with such joy and excitement that my body would feel a thousand shivers just from her touch on my shoulders.

Life is about the subtle things. It's not about the BIG moments. It's about the day to day things that add up to a fulfilling life. Porn would seem inadequate in what she and I would require to spice things up. Perhaps if a couple took my time to learn the little things like her body, her responses, refining the value and power in just a touch,they could find the intensity they'd been seeking.

I guess what I'm saying that when you're a marriage looking to spice things up. Just kep things simple ,as if you lived in a world all by yourself with no toys or movies and all you have is just the two of you, the stars above and a long night ahead.
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OH MY GOODNESS!! I think I just woke up the kids with my shouting over this post! LOL!! :lachen:

What a beautiful post!! I'm not sure why I'm so surprised. Perhaps because such a thoughtful post came from a man? That's not really fair, since there are many men who have good sense. It's just really nice to actually meet a man who who can express himself like this. Wow! If all men thought of their wives in this manner, and lived it, daily, I think they'd see their wives come out of their shells more.

My issue with porn is that, it's a complete deviation from the word of God and His divine plan for sex and marriage. It's not only unreal and degrading to me, but it's impersonal, and I don't want a man to expect me to act out what he saw some other woman doing. There's no love in it, and I couldn't be convinced that he wasn't imagining he was with her and not really with me. I don't want any part of that.

Great post, Blkman!! :up:
 
momi

momi

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BlkManWithSomeSense said:
Excellent Post! I personally dont think porn has a place in marriage. I have nothing against couples trying different things to spice up their marriage but there should be limits. The object of my desire and complete focus would be my wife. I think many couples place too much emphasis on the big things ( such as more intense 'climactic' results) than focusing on the little things. Porn can seem attractive as a tutorial because of the graphic rawness but couples have something no adult movie will ever have and thats a REAL connection. Allow me to share my perspective.

There is nothing greater a woman can give to a man than her complete devotion. Mind Body and soul. She does this voluntarily and unconditionally. This is a privilage and an honor that she offers to him something no man will ever have. I know that she has taken a vow before God to be his soulmate and he should never take that declaration for granted.

There is an incomparable feeling to be in love. I say all this because sometimes it's forgotten just how special it is to be loved by a woman. Her pure presence beside me should fill me with such joy and excitement that my body would feel a thousand shivers just from her touch on my shoulders.

Life is about the subtle things. It's not about the BIG moments. It's about the day to day things that add up to a fulfilling life. Porn would seem inadequate in what she and I would require to spice things up. Perhaps if a couple took the time to learn the little things like her body, her responses, refining the value and power in just a touch,they could find the intensity they'd been seeking.

I guess what I'm saying that when you're a marriage looking to spice things up. Just kep things simple ,as if you lived in a world all by yourself with no toys or movies and all you have is just the two of you, the stars above and a long night ahead.
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AMEN! AMEN! Thank you for that encouraging word! I need to be reminded on occassion of what type of wife God has called me to be.
 
Shimmie

Shimmie

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BlkManWithSomeSense said:
Excellent Post! I personally dont think porn has a place in marriage. I have nothing against couples trying different things to spice up their marriage but there should be limits. The object of my desire and complete focus would be my wife. I think many couples place too much emphasis on the big things ( such as more intense 'climactic' results) than focusing on the little things. Porn can seem attractive as a tutorial because of the graphic rawness but couples have something no adult movie will ever have and thats a REAL connection. Allow me to share my perspective.

There is nothing greater a woman can give to a man than her complete devotion. Mind Body and soul. She does this voluntarily and unconditionally. This is a privilage and an honor that she offers to him something no man will ever have. I know that she has taken a vow before God to be his soulmate and he should never take that declaration for granted.

There is an incomparable feeling to be in love. I say all this because sometimes it's forgotten just how special it is to be loved by a woman. Her pure presence beside me should fill me with such joy and excitement that my body would feel a thousand shivers just from her touch on my shoulders.

Life is about the subtle things. It's not about the BIG moments. It's about the day to day things that add up to a fulfilling life. Porn would seem inadequate in what she and I would require to spice things up. Perhaps if a couple took the time to learn the little things like her body, her responses, refining the value and power in just a touch,they could find the intensity they'd been seeking.

I guess what I'm saying that when you're a marriage looking to spice things up. Just kep things simple ,as if you lived in a world all by yourself with no toys or movies and all you have is just the two of you, the stars above and a long night ahead.
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Thank you for taking the time to share this with us. We are very blessed to have your advice.
 
Shimmie

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For Wives and their Husbands... :love3:

One Man / One Woman Married under God. In Jesus' Name, Amen and Amen.
 
Shimmie

Shimmie

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momi said:
Team Shimmie.

#IJS
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Team momi :love2:

All this time... Now I truly know what God has been calling me too and preparing me for and why.

#Protecting-Marriage
#Encouraging-Male/Female-Couples;
#Do-not-Give-Up-on-Marriage;
#Marriage-is-indeed-God's-Will;
#One-Man-One-Woman
#Forever
#No-Other-Marriage-Exists
#Gods-Gift
#Man-and-Woman
#Whom-God-Hath-Joined-Together
#Which-Shall-Be-And-Shall-Always-Be
#Trust-God
#It's-NEVER-Too-Late
#I-am-a-Living-Witness
#Shimmie :reddancer: :look:
#Believe-God
#Yes-I-Do :yep:
#God-Betrothes-His-Daughters
#Too-Late-to-Tell-Me-Otherwise :love3:
#It is God's Will for You to be Married --- Happily Married.

In Jesus' Name, Amen and Amen.
 
BostonMaria

BostonMaria

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I will make sure to read this

I believe that Porn can easily BREAK a marriage apart, not enhance it... as people try to make you believe.
 
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