Ladies,
I need some advice. I wen to the salon this weekend, and after doing the April1 challenge, needed a trim. I asked if she could just clip my ends, which I didn't really have many split ends, just a few. And what happens? I get my length cut off. This exact same thing happened when I got my last trim on Dec 31 and I was mad as crap!
I really like my stylist, been with her for over 8 years, but I am so frustrated. Everytime I get near midback length and need a light trim, I end up right back where I started, shoulder length. It didn't help that I had these layers cut in last year, which really made my 4a/4b fine-hair suffer.
I mean, I was just getting back to being happy with the length and then this again. I do not know how to communicate properly when I just want the split ends taken off and then end up getting too much length gone instead. Also, my hair grows naturally into a V, but every time I get a trim, I end up getting it cut all the way across even. I am so pissed off because that is work down the drain.
I don't want to switch stylists, but honestly, this is really getting me down. i don't trust myself to cut my own ends, and I definitely don't run the risk of going to a stranger and getting something worse.
I just started taking MSM two weeks agao, so I am hoping that will accelerate the growth a little.
I am sorry for being so long-winded, but I am so pissed right now.
I need some advice. I wen to the salon this weekend, and after doing the April1 challenge, needed a trim. I asked if she could just clip my ends, which I didn't really have many split ends, just a few. And what happens? I get my length cut off. This exact same thing happened when I got my last trim on Dec 31 and I was mad as crap!
I really like my stylist, been with her for over 8 years, but I am so frustrated. Everytime I get near midback length and need a light trim, I end up right back where I started, shoulder length. It didn't help that I had these layers cut in last year, which really made my 4a/4b fine-hair suffer.
I mean, I was just getting back to being happy with the length and then this again. I do not know how to communicate properly when I just want the split ends taken off and then end up getting too much length gone instead. Also, my hair grows naturally into a V, but every time I get a trim, I end up getting it cut all the way across even. I am so pissed off because that is work down the drain.
I don't want to switch stylists, but honestly, this is really getting me down. i don't trust myself to cut my own ends, and I definitely don't run the risk of going to a stranger and getting something worse.
I just started taking MSM two weeks agao, so I am hoping that will accelerate the growth a little.
I am sorry for being so long-winded, but I am so pissed right now.