You are welcome, dear. The sun didn't shine as brightly in my life and in my heart for a long time after my daddy died. But before you know it, you start to feel the rays of warmth in your heart like you used to, when your parent was here. And then you realize, that no matter what, as long as you are still taking a breath and alive in this world of shadows, your parent will ALWAYS be with you, and that they never really left. That is because, you are still here to remember and love them.
Your hair will work out. Perhaps you may want to examine the situation without trepidation or doubt. Look at it head on, and maybe the answer will be 'blinking', looking back at you.