I'm having a new issue since I've started wearing wash and gos more. I am trying to figure out how to get touchable hair. I have used eco styler but that leaves my hair too hard. I tried adding a little bit of oil on top but it left a faint white cast which I wasn't crazy about and I only used very little oil. I tried oil underneath and the white cast was much much worse. So then I started using a curl activator gel which I liked for a minute because my hair isn't crunchy and it's packed with glycerin which keeps my hair pretty moisturized too. The problem is glycerin packed products leave my hair really sticky. Today I was playing in my hair and at first it felt good and smooth but then my hands started to get sticky. It was gross and I had to wash my hands after. Is there anything that helps with curl definition but leaves your hair touchable.