A Bed of Roses Has Both Thorns & Flowers!

Nice & Wavy

Well-Known Member
This blessed me sooooooo much that I wanted to share with whomever would read it. It reminded me of how much I need to continue to listen to the Father when He tells me "Don't do this...don't go there...don't touch that....daugther, hear me!"

I don't like scars and I don't like to bleed:nono:

But, if it does happen...I need to learn from it and apply God's word to my life!

Thank God for the saints that share messages like this!
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Thorns and Petals
Lysa TerKeurst

"The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life's worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature."
Luke 8:14 (NIV)


My life has not been a bed of roses.

What an odd statement. It is supposed to mean that I haven't lived a life without snags and hurt. However, think of an actual bed of roses. Doesn't it have both thorns and flowers?

Let me say, if I was reading this devotion and I saw it was going to be about roses, I might be tempted to click "delete" while rolling my eyes and thinking the last thing the world needs is another cutesy Christian analogy. But stick with me here. There is something significant to be discovered about roses and thorns.

My aunt has grown roses for years. When I was in middle school and my family was falling apart, I went to live with my aunt for almost a year. I remember her telling me not to run through her rose garden. After all, she had what seemed like hundreds of other acres that unfolded in wide open fields. I could run there.

But I didn't want to.

I only wanted to run through the rose garden. I wanted to spread my arms wide open and run between the rows brushing my fingertips across all the velvety blooms. I wanted some of the blooms to burst and shower petals all around. Then I could gather the petals and spread them along my path.

As if I could carve a new place in this world lined with beauty and void of adult words like divorce, rejection, and hate ... I wanted my world to be soft, pink, and lovely. So, I took a running start with my arms outstretched only to be shocked with searing pain within the first few steps.

Thorns. Big, mean, vicious thorns. Thorns that ripped my flesh and opened up the flood of tears I'd been so determined to hold back. Suddenly, I hated that bush. I wanted to chop it down and beat it into the ground. But I couldn't do it. I couldn't bring myself to destroy something that produced such beauty.

I stood back from the source of my pain and wondered should I call it a bush of thorns or a bush of flowers. Really, it could go either way.

Suddenly I wasn't just staring at a bush. I was staring at my life. My life. Such a bed of roses. Would I see the hurt or would I see the beauty?

Luke 8:14 says, "The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life's worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature." The seed being referred to here is the Word of God. Isn't it interesting that people who are choked by life's circumstances and never mature are referred to as having thorns in the soil of their soul? Yes, life sometimes hands us thorns but we have the choice to park our mind on the thorn or on the beauty it can eventually produce in us if only we'll cling tightly to God's Word. For however a person thinks is how they will eventually become.

If we dwell on and think about the negative in life, we will become negative and God's Word will have a hard time taking root in our souls. If, however, we acknowledge the negative but choose instead to look for the good that can come from it, God's Word will take root in our souls and produce a lush crop of beauty.

It all comes down to choice. That day in my aunt's garden, I chose to be aware of the thorns but park my mind on the petals.

And I guess you could say, I've been making that choice every day since.

Dear Lord, it can be really hard to focus on the petals rather than the thorns of life. Really hard. Will you help me? I want the soil of my soul to be healthy and ready to receive Your Word. I want to produce beauty in my life despite the thorns by which I've been so hurt. Will You show me how? In Jesus' Name, Amen.
 

Laela

Sidestepping the "lynch mob"
Thanks for posting this... I was blessed reading it... this part hits home for me.

Have a blessed day!
:rosebud:


If we dwell on and think about the negative in life, we will become negative and God's Word will have a hard time taking root in our souls. If, however, we acknowledge the negative but choose instead to look for the good that can come from it, God's Word will take root in our souls and produce a lush crop of beauty.

It all comes down to choice
 

Shimmie

"God is the Only Truth -- Period"
Staff member
Precous Wavy, this really applies to what I've been going through. Much of it you already know about. :yep:

But today, this message is so on time. I literally had to endure 'the thorns' the last few days and to endure, God showered me with soft, fragrant Rose petals of His Love to focus upon instead.

Again and again, thank you so much for being obedient when you post the messages God shares with you. Always on time.

Praise Jesus... Praise, Praise, Praise Him. Bless His Holy Name... "Jesus". :Rose:
 

Nice & Wavy

Well-Known Member
^^^ thank you for this post, off to do a mini Bible study with DH.:yep:
You are welcome and you know what? I've been thinking about doing one on this message all day!!! This message is perfect for one....I hope you and dh had a good one!

Blessings...
 

Nice & Wavy

Well-Known Member
Precous Wavy, this really applies to what I've been going through. Much of it you already know about. :yep:

But today, this message is so on time. I literally had to endure 'the thorns' the last few days and to endure, God showered me with soft, fragrant Rose petals of His Love to focus upon instead.

Again and again, thank you so much for being obedient when you post the messages God shares with you. Always on time.

Praise Jesus... Praise, Praise, Praise Him. Bless His Holy Name... "Jesus". :Rose:
:bighug: Yes, my sweet sister in the Lord, I do know :kiss:

I'm so blessed to know that this has blessed you...I know I too was so blessed reading it...it confirmed so much for me.

We shall praise Him and bless His Holy Name!!!!

:kiss:
 
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