Regarding the bolded....you forgot to add "No Pun Intended",
But really, they feel that they can do this because it's "Ancient"? Their reasoning is not supported by documentation in their own "Cultures" documentation, which clearly the families either don't read or don't acknowledge the omission of data on.
But in their twisted defense.
1. The explanation offered about how the Russian's influence and progressive actions may have led to this to try to thwart arranged marriages. and
2. If the female went along willingly (or said Yes easily) she would be seen as impure;
a high resistance is seen as a sign of Purity ....so in the end this makes the (knowing) Bride look more Pure
No matter which Justification/logic they use they are still dead wrong. Heck; 'Merica's justification for Slavery was just as F-LAWED!