Discussion in 'News - Breaking News & Political Forum' started by Leeda.the.Paladin, Aug 18, 2018.
Thank you for taking the time out to provide this detailed information. It is very much appreciated!
Girl! When he took the time out at the end of the interview to talk about his sports shirt? :/
I guarantee that he was texting his girlfriend while the police were in his house questioning him. He was on his phone the entire time.
Whoa did not notice the arms. You are right.
have you seen this video of the first cop's bodycam? the husband acted so unconcerned about the fact that his wife was missing. while her friend is freaking out going from room to room trying to think about places the wife could've been, he is just standing silently, not offering any solutions, barely answering the officer's questions, and texting on his phone like his wife and children aren't even missing (the wife's car was still in the garage). what got me was the look of horror on his face when he thought the officer called for backup and was going to arrest him.
I wonder what is the fascination with this tragic story?
I think I can answer my own question. This is a reality, and it a reality for a lot of people. It is probably a reality for a lot of women on this board. Trying to figure him out, and learn all of the signs is somewhat helpful, but it is more helpful to understand why somebody doesn’t see and acknowledge what is right there in front of them is the key. Why are they ignoring the signs and not trusting their own judgement? The wife would be more fascinating to analyze than the murdering husband.
So I watched the body can analysis and fell down a rabbit hole. Two things:
1) their mortgage was mentioned upthread. There was a Reddit thread on this and it seems they did not have a large down payment. If they had one at all, it was probably only like 5-10%:
2) there is a narrative about Shannan and her attitude. Apparently some folks feel she was controlling/overbearing/emasculating and they're using some of her YouTube streams/videos to prove it. I shouldn't be surprised but like...how do you victim blame a murdered pregnant woman?
Also: the mistress knew good and well that Chris was married. They found Google searches on her phone about Amber Frey's net worth, if Amber Frey got a book deal, and if people hate Amber Frey.
Agreed It’s very much a sign of the times. There is a very popular show called “Dirty John” right now that has captivated millions of people because you wonder why/how an intelligent wealthy business savvy woman fell for and continued to stay with a to psychopath at the expense of her family who had red flags at every turn. I think it makes you do an internal assessment to make sure that you’re not overlooking things in your own life.
Around the same time that this story broke, we had a very handsome, tall, family-oriented oncologist start in our department and he spoke so lovingly about his wife and kids. He went to church regularly and was so excited about his son’s communion, etc. I thought about this and jaded EZ was like- What’s wrong with him? My church going mom agreed
Them white women all about profit, opportunity, and victimhood.
He already has about 80 women writing him in prison....they are turned on by him.
I think it's the combination of dead pregnant woman and kids killed by side chick having husband, all while putting on the SM front of being the all American family. Similar to the Lacy Peterson story.
Don’t forget the gay lover part.
We all know pregnancy is a dangerous and vulnerable time for a woman. Folks don’t think about that.
It there is also the Lifetime Movie genre (I hate that channel). She presented the Norman Rockwell image to the world and it wasn’t like that. He was sleeping with men, other women, and they were broke.
Even if that’s true and she had a bad attitude... just leave! And don’t kill your poor innocent babies! I can’t get with anyone trying to justify this psychos actions
Yes, he had a young male lover. They went to the lover’s family cabin for sex.
Not for me. I don't care about none of this. What fascinates me is how this seemingly decent guy became so bold enough to kill his entire family and think he would get away with it in this day and age. He had no strong alibi and yet he did multiple televised interviews. It's like he didn't fully think this through yet still didn't try to flee. I am fascinated (meaning, horrified) by how patriarchy emboldens men, especially white men to the point of murder/violence/abuse against women. How could he have thought people were going to believe that his wife and kids just up and vanished and that he would be able to carry on with his life? I'm still trying to figure that out, but all I keep coming up with is patriarchy.
but how true is this? doesn't seem like it's been confirmed as the guy didn't reveal his identity.
Not sure. The gay lover's mother think it is possible for her son to have made up the allegation. Let's just say there are no pictures.