Discreet, ninja-like ways to stare at gorgeous hair IRL

[caribeandiva]

I saw these 2 black chicks with gorgeous hair today. They were sitting in front of me diagonally on the bus. One of them had hair a little shorter than APL and the other was MBL. I think they're both relaxed. Not sure though. I tried hard not to stare but it was hard! So I kept stealing glances at them but I don't wanna seem like a stalker.

Any ideas ladies?

 

[4evershika]

I don't even care most of the time

I'll just stare with no shame!

 

[caribeandiva]

I don't even care most of the time

I'll just stare with no shame!

I understand because it's really hard not to.

 

[twinkletoes17]

Lol I love the title.

ITA with love.akihsoy. Unless they're nearby then you might see me looking behind a book or something. Otherwise I just stare lol.

 

[Mz.MoMo5235]

i've been caught staring... its ok, they can think i'm weird, i got my eye full lol

 

[caribeandiva]

i've been caught staring... its ok, they can think i'm weird, i got my eye full lol

I've been caught too and I always complement their hair when that happens. This is why I'm more like this now.

 

[JuiceMobsta]

I've been caught too and I always complement their hair when that happens. This is why I'm more like this now.

Just wear some shades like in your avatar but darker, so they cant quite tell if you are looking at them or not...

 

[supermodelsonya]

But could this be what OTHER ladies are doing as well?

Reference the "Long Hair Ladies Can I Live Vicariously Through You?" Thread.

I've read many stories about how they constantly get stares and I KNOW I BE STARING at making googly eyes at long hair.

Just a thought.

 

[lilsparkle825]

I just stare and offer a compliment. No shame in my game.

 

[afrikurl]

I stare and if they look up, I smile and say you have beautiful hair. I know that would make me feel good and great hair is hard work.
Then Niko's cousin comes on here and says a weird lady was staring at her hair in Target

 

[dollface0023]

I have no shame...I just stare,lol. If I get caught then I'll go ahead and compliment them. There's nothing better then real life hair porn

 

[nycutiepie]

This thread is funny. I live in NY and you can get in a beef over staring so I just try to do it on the low

 

[Ishtar]

Girl, I will ask. "What do you do to your hair? What perm you use? How long do you wait to perm your hair? Who yo stylist? What conditioner you use? How long do you leave the conditioner on? How fast yo hair grow? You be doing your own hair?

99% of the time women will be honest and let you know what they do to their hair.They freely give tips. Sometimes someone will tell you that they don't have to do anything to get long hair. They were born with " good hair." Sometimes they are just being honest when they say they don't have to work at it. Other times they may want to carry on the illusion.

 

[caribeandiva]

I have no shame...I just stare,lol. If I get caught then I'll go ahead and compliment them. There's nothing better then real life hair porn

Amen!

 

[caribeandiva]

I stare and if they look up, I smile and say you have beautiful hair. I know that would make me feel good and great hair is hard work.
Then Niko's cousin comes on here and says a weird lady was staring at her hair in Target

That was you? I remember that post.

 

[BlackMasterPiece]

Discreet? Whats that?

When I see someone with awesome hair I stroll right up to them and tell them their hair is amazing, we'll swap info and have a fun chat and that's it...when it comes to awesome hair, most of the time if I feel it I'll speak it

 

[BostonMaria]

I don't even care most of the time

I'll just stare with no shame!

Same here! I can't help it!

 

[Nayeli]

Another starer checking in. I am world-renowned for staring people down, whether it be at hair or something else.

Sometimes I try to cut down the rudeness by pretending I'm not looking at the person but right past them (you know, when the person's eyes aren't moving and you are convinced they are looking at you but they aren't).......but I really am looking at them.

 

[NJoy]

Please! I'm all up in the koolaid. If her hair is fly, then she already knows it and expects people to look. Don't want me to look? Put on a hat or scarf. But you know you want me to look.

On the flip side, everything shows on my face so, if her hair is busted, she's gonna know it by my expression. I'm not going to say anything but that disapproving look will be unmistakable.

And please don't think I'm not going to start talking to her, while my eyes are shamelessly all up in the head.

Grocery store? Yep.

Movie theater? You betcha.

Church? Hallelujah.

Ladies room? Hey! We're in the mirror anyway. Right?

NO shame in my game. None.

 

[SHEANITPRO]

I stare! I think a woman with a beautiful mane, irrespective of length knows she will turn heads.

To pay for my "stolen glances", I also "Compliment"!

 

[me-T]

Please! I'm all up in the koolaid. If her hair is fly, then she already knows it and expects people to look. Don't want me to look? Put on a hat or scarf. But you know you want me to look.

On the flip side, everything shows on my face so, if her hair is busted, she's gonna know it by my expression. I'm not going to say anything but that disapproving look will be unmistakable.

And please don't think I'm not going to start talking to her, while my eyes are shamelessly all up in the head.

Grocery store? Yep.

Movie theater? You betcha.

Church? Hallelujah.

Ladies room? Hey! We're in the mirror anyway. Right?

NO shame in my game. None.

l! o! l!

 

[Love Always]

I brake my neck trying to see some gorgeous hair...I have no shame .

 

[caribeandiva]

Please! I'm all up in the koolaid. If her hair is fly, then she already knows it and expects people to look. Don't want me to look? Put on a hat or scarf. But you know you want me to look.

On the flip side, everything shows on my face so, if her hair is busted, she's gonna know it by my expression. I'm not going to say anything but that disapproving look will be unmistakable.

And please don't think I'm not going to start talking to her, while my eyes are shamelessly all up in the head.

Grocery store? Yep.

Movie theater? You betcha.

Church? Hallelujah.

Ladies room? Hey! We're in the mirror anyway. Right?

NO shame in my game. None.

I need to hang out with you some more.