I was wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience to mine when patronizing Dominican salons.
Whenever I patronize a Dominican salon, I choose one stylist and one technician and try to stick with them. I will only go to someone else if either is not in the shop but have left when my stylist was not working or no longer employed at the shop. I have also looked for and found "my stylist" working at another shop and switched to her new location.
When I need a trim or there is an issue with my hair, it is the shampoo technician or the person who washes my hair that brings this to my attention, not the hair stylist. I had a stylist tell me how great my hair looked after a touch up applied by "my shampoo technician".
Fast forward two weeks, a different shampoo technician washed my hair and informed me it was overprossed. Offended by her observation and comment, I told her my stylist said on my previous visit how healthy my hair looked after my relaxer.
Needless to say, she never washed my hair again - because she too was offended. I did, however, later conclude that I was losing hair at the shampoo bowl and left the shop.
When I switched salons, things went from bad to worst - really, really bad.
Again, I chose a hair stylist and a shampoo technician. I patronized the salon for a while and decided to get a touch up and cellophane. After about four weeks, I got a semipermanent black color. Approximately eight weeks later, I got a second touch up - oh boy.
I noticed my hair looked different and was difficult to style. I trusted the "professionals", so it never once crossed my mind that my hair I was so anal about getting deep conditioned, monitored the amount of heat used on it, religiously got drops and leave in conditioners etc. could be damaged. There was something going on, but perhaps, it was the change in weather or some internal body change.
The house of cards fell when another shampoo technician told me my hair had been severely damaged after she washed it. She did not stop there. She told me she witnessed the other shampoo technician rushing to apply my relaxer throwing it all over my head. She went on to tell me that she would restore the health of my hair over a six month period with no chemicals and hard protein treatments. We made an agreement.
However, when I returned to the salon, she was no longer employed there. I suspect she was terminated because of her honesty. Something tells me I was not the only person she had this conversation with.
I did confront the stylist and shampoo technician who caused my damage. The shampoo technician denied the misapplication of the relaxer. However, she admitted it was the semi-permanent color she applied that caused the damage, I was shocked. To add insult to injury, the shampoo technician tried to overcharge me for the conditioner I needed due to the damage she caused.
When I went back to my former stylist for a blunt cut to fix the damage - she does not know the full story - she told me she would need to cut layers in the front of my hair, which is a no, no. She then said she would need to cut layers in my back. I agree, even though my back had very little damage. Well, this cut made it impossible for me to wrap my hair at night correctly and resulted in me going to one of two different Dominican salons twice a week.
After about a month and a half, I went to a Hair Cuttery as a referral, had my hair recut and started getting flexi rod sets.
There is a happy ending - if you can believe it. This experience forced me to take time to learn my hair as well as what works for my hair and what does not work for my hair. It also gave me the confidence to explore many no heat styles and wash and condition my hair myself.
In the past, if my hair felt a little "weak" I ran to the people who caused the issue to fix it realizing now they only made it worst.
This experience led me to begin my transition. There have been hair stylists and shampoo technicians who suggested I transition, but I did not want to give up my relaxer - after I learned my hair and how to style it, I embraced the idea of transitioning now I am excited and enjoying the change.
There should be a character limit.
Whenever I patronize a Dominican salon, I choose one stylist and one technician and try to stick with them. I will only go to someone else if either is not in the shop but have left when my stylist was not working or no longer employed at the shop. I have also looked for and found "my stylist" working at another shop and switched to her new location.
When I need a trim or there is an issue with my hair, it is the shampoo technician or the person who washes my hair that brings this to my attention, not the hair stylist. I had a stylist tell me how great my hair looked after a touch up applied by "my shampoo technician".
Fast forward two weeks, a different shampoo technician washed my hair and informed me it was overprossed. Offended by her observation and comment, I told her my stylist said on my previous visit how healthy my hair looked after my relaxer.
Needless to say, she never washed my hair again - because she too was offended. I did, however, later conclude that I was losing hair at the shampoo bowl and left the shop.
When I switched salons, things went from bad to worst - really, really bad.
Again, I chose a hair stylist and a shampoo technician. I patronized the salon for a while and decided to get a touch up and cellophane. After about four weeks, I got a semipermanent black color. Approximately eight weeks later, I got a second touch up - oh boy.
I noticed my hair looked different and was difficult to style. I trusted the "professionals", so it never once crossed my mind that my hair I was so anal about getting deep conditioned, monitored the amount of heat used on it, religiously got drops and leave in conditioners etc. could be damaged. There was something going on, but perhaps, it was the change in weather or some internal body change.
The house of cards fell when another shampoo technician told me my hair had been severely damaged after she washed it. She did not stop there. She told me she witnessed the other shampoo technician rushing to apply my relaxer throwing it all over my head. She went on to tell me that she would restore the health of my hair over a six month period with no chemicals and hard protein treatments. We made an agreement.
However, when I returned to the salon, she was no longer employed there. I suspect she was terminated because of her honesty. Something tells me I was not the only person she had this conversation with.
I did confront the stylist and shampoo technician who caused my damage. The shampoo technician denied the misapplication of the relaxer. However, she admitted it was the semi-permanent color she applied that caused the damage, I was shocked. To add insult to injury, the shampoo technician tried to overcharge me for the conditioner I needed due to the damage she caused.
When I went back to my former stylist for a blunt cut to fix the damage - she does not know the full story - she told me she would need to cut layers in the front of my hair, which is a no, no. She then said she would need to cut layers in my back. I agree, even though my back had very little damage. Well, this cut made it impossible for me to wrap my hair at night correctly and resulted in me going to one of two different Dominican salons twice a week.
After about a month and a half, I went to a Hair Cuttery as a referral, had my hair recut and started getting flexi rod sets.
There is a happy ending - if you can believe it. This experience forced me to take time to learn my hair as well as what works for my hair and what does not work for my hair. It also gave me the confidence to explore many no heat styles and wash and condition my hair myself.
In the past, if my hair felt a little "weak" I ran to the people who caused the issue to fix it realizing now they only made it worst.
This experience led me to begin my transition. There have been hair stylists and shampoo technicians who suggested I transition, but I did not want to give up my relaxer - after I learned my hair and how to style it, I embraced the idea of transitioning now I am excited and enjoying the change.
There should be a character limit.
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