can someone tell me the purpose of rosewater? I know Ive heard of people using it in their spritz bottles, but not sure why. does it soften and/or add shine? about how much should I use and what is good to mix it with? I got a small bottle of it at the indian store when I went to buy some coconut oil. another quick question is how do u know if its refined or unrefined coconut oil? the stuff I nbought says %100 pure, but my other kind says pure organic yet its still refined. TIA!