Long hair ladies, can I live vicariously through you?

[exoticmommie]

Hopefully this will the last thread that I start this week.

Anyway...

So I have been stalking fotkis ALL DAY (stalking fotkis, as well as stalking those who stalk others, thanks theo ), and dreaming about hair, le sigh. I simply cannot wait to get to APL. APL and beyond to me is the kinda hair that stays on your back and has that extra movement because of the weight.

I have been looking at you long haired ladies fotkis and imaging what life must be like, :scratchch

If you don't mind please share your experiences, and don't worry about sounding arrogant or anything of that sort.

I have been imaging what it must be like to feel all that hair in the shower, just to have it all, just hanging down your back. DH loves when we are in the shower and the little bit of hang I got now. So I could only imagine.

I also imagine going out, with all you hair out and suddenly a gust of wind comes by and it's blowing all about (oh my hair!). Or bending over to pick up something and it all comes tumbling down, and having to flip it back. Or like another poster said, having my hair down and my neck is hot from all the heat, from all the hair, and having to move it to the side.

I know that there are other threads about this, but I am pretty sure I have read them all.

Please put me out of my misery and share some more...

 

[I Am So Blessed]

lol lol, well it definitly is heavy in the shower. and men drool over my hair. my so says "its long as hell" but i dont think its long becuase i dont see nothing but the future and not the present. i see long hair in my future and not my present, better said. you will feel better about yourself becase you are not wearing somebody else's hair on your head. my so seems to have a proud look when he walks with me and my hair is all out. (black man) he said one time "look, it just flows in wind" he said it like he was looking at a sparkling diamond and i dont even feel that way about my hair lol.....not yet at least. sometimes it feels like my dreams have come true becuase i remember being in school and hating on white girls for having mbl and WL hair and big buns on top of head. and now i have my own big bun.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

oh and might i add, it does make you feel sexier, especialy when your showing cleavage and your hair lays on it lol. cuz you know your so is looking or some man is checking you out. so i brush hair back, off shoulders, and off the cleavage in sloww mooooo lol. ----(leaves thread)

 

[exoticmommie]

lol lol, well it definitly is heavy in the shower. and men drool over my hair. my so says "its long as hell" but i dont think its long becuase i dont see nothing but the future and not the present. i see long hair in my future and not my present, better said. you will feel better about yourself becase you are not wearing somebody else's hair on your head. my so seems to have a proud look when he walks with me and my hair is all out. (black man) he said one time "look, it just flows in wind" he said it like he was looking at a sparkling diamond and i dont even feel that way about my hair lol.....not yet at least. sometimes it feels like my dreams have come true becuase i remember being in school and hating on white girls for having mbl and WL hair and big buns on top of head. and now i have my own big bun.

sounds great to me. And I feel you on the weaves. One of the reasons I even got really interested in hair care is because DH hates weaves. He would rather I wear my natural hair, even if it was EL. And so I was like well I hate short hair, on me that is, and so I gotta do something.

But girl it sounds like you have hair anorexia. How you can not think you don't have long hair. Even when looking to the future. I stalked your fotki today, and yes it's very long.

And about the cleavage thing, when I get there, I will definitely be trying that move on DH. :eyebrows2

 

[4evershika]

^^^ (@ Adora and the bit about cleavage)

I'll be lurking in this thread for inspiration!

 

[DaPPeR]

Can I live vicariously through YOU??? You have some pretty hair that I WISHHHHH I had...(im barely sl and its not healthy and I have been on here 3 years)

 

[ThePerfectScore]

Yeah... I drool over the hair I see on this site.... Inspiration not hateration! haha okay I'm lame.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

i know i sound greedy and maybe anorexic, but i neeeeeed my hair to look like the last pic in my siggy. lol. i wish i had started this hair journy in high school.

 

[exoticmommie]

Can I live vicariously through YOU??? You have some pretty hair that I WISHHHHH I had...(im barely sl and its not healthy and I have been on here 3 years)

Oh I am boring, I wear a lot of twist outs which puts my hair at NL. But in the shower I do be practicing my Herbal Essence commercials.

ETA: I take that back, and nothing like a flat twist out on the third day so much body and shine. The first day is good but the curls be kinda tight. I retwist and moisturize and seal in four section everyday until next wash. Hair feels amazing. But I am waiting to where the shrinkage doesn't make it so short.

 

[BostonMaria]

Hey Exoticmommie! I'm looking forward to my steamer next Monday! woot woot!

I love my long hair. It truly is an amazing feeling, I won't lie. Like yesterday I was out buying a short coat and I was trying it and was looking in the mirror. I was like damn my hair is hot LMAO

I wasn't sad in 2007 when I cut my hair nape length. I had to BC and I knew it was the right time. It took me a year to get to APL and it felt like the longest year in the world. I'm now MBL and its the longest my hair has been since 1981. Now I need to lose weight and then nobody can tell me NUTHIN! ahahahaaha

BTW I also have hair anorexia

 

[teacherjess]

Can I live vicariously through YOU??? You have some pretty hair that I WISHHHHH I had...(im barely sl and its not healthy and I have been on here 3 years)

Absolutely! I mean, I'd think I was the ish if I had your hair to work with, exoticmommie.

I'm NL erplexed and mine is just now starting to look full and healthy.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Hey Exoticmommie! I'm looking forward to my steamer next Monday! woot woot!

I love my long hair. It truly is an amazing feeling, I won't lie. Like yesterday I was out buying a short coat and I was trying it and was looking in the mirror. I was like damn my hair is hot LMAO

I wasn't sad in 2007 when I cut my hair nape length. I had to BC and I knew it was the right time. It took me a year to get to APL and it felt like the longest year in the world. I'm now MBL and its the longest my hair has been since 1981. Now I need to lose weight and then nobody can tell me NUTHIN! ahahahaaha

BTW I also have hair anorexia

wow BM, your are funny as H, "I was like damn my hair is hot LMAO"

 

[I Am So Blessed]

i think once your hair is long, you still have hair anorexia, i dont know whyyy.

 

[exoticmommie]

Hey Exoticmommie! I'm looking forward to my steamer next Monday! woot woot!

I love my long hair. It truly is an amazing feeling, I won't lie. Like yesterday I was out buying a short coat and I was trying it and was looking in the mirror. I was like damn my hair is hot LMAO

I wasn't sad in 2007 when I cut my hair nape length. I had to BC and I knew it was the right time. It took me a year to get to APL and it felt like the longest year in the world. I'm now MBL and its the longest my hair has been since 1981. Now I need to lose weight and then nobody can tell me NUTHIN! ahahahaaha

BTW I also have hair anorexia

When are in the shower and risning that conditioner out, you will be in your own HE commercial.

And I feel you on the losing weight. I am glad you brought that up...

Another imagination.

I imagine myself at the gym, working out, with my hair in a pony swanging/bouncing as I am on the tread mill/bike/elipitical. Or I come in with a massive messy bun. And from the hard work out some long pieces hang out (oh my long hair is a mess!).

 

[I Am So Blessed]

When are in the shower and risning that conditioner out, you will be in your own HE commercial.

And I feel you on the losing weight. I am glad you brought that up...

Another imagination.

I imagine myself at the gym, working out, with my hair in a pony swanging/bouncing as I am on the tread mill/bike/elipitical. Or I come in with a massive messy bun. And from the hard work out some long pieces hang out (oh my long hair is a mess!).

wow!!! thats funnyy, you sound like me. TMI but i be imagining making love with tailbone length hair and its swining in slow mo to this song __> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dP2t9LBeAwo . oohh gosh i have to get out this thread ..

 

[BostonMaria]

I imagine myself at the gym, working out, with my hair in a pony swanging/bouncing as I am on the tread mill/bike/elipitical. Or I come in with a massive messy bun. And from the hard work out some long pieces hang out (oh my long hair is a mess!).

Hey that happened to me a few days ago. I was on the treadmill at the gym and could feel my long ponytail swinging. I was lucky that after I was done my hair didn't poof up. I like going when my hair is curly because I don't have to worry about my hair reverting. I'm trying to lose 17 pounds by June. I'm trying to visualize the weight loss and keeping focused *sigh* its hard.

BTW how is your baby?!!

 

[sunnieb]

Great thread! Subscribing for more stories!

 

[exoticmommie]

Absolutely! I mean, I'd think I was the ish if I had your hair to work with, exoticmommie.

I'm NL erplexed and mine is just now starting to look full and healthy.

That's what I thought when I was NL. I guess we ain't never gonna be satisfied,

 

[sharifeh]

exoticmommie I feel you! I'm at APL and I have long hair fantasies like yours all the time! Can't wait till I'm midback!

 

[melissa-bee]

These fantasies are making me hot.
*goes back to lurking in the shadows*

 

[exoticmommie]

wow!!! thats funnyy, you sound like me. TMI but i be imagining making love with tailbone length hair and its swining. oohh gosh i have to get out this thread ..

Now you know I have imagined that as well.

DH is behind and my hair all over my back looking sessy.

Hey that happened to me a few days ago. I was on the treadmill at the gym and could feel my long ponytail swinging. I was lucky that after I was done my hair didn't poof up. I like going when my hair is curly because I don't have to worry about my hair reverting. I'm trying to lose 17 pounds by June. I'm trying to visualize the weight loss and keeping focused *sigh* its hard.

BTW how is your baby?!!

I can't wait to do wash and go's and it's long enough to look good in a pony.

You can do it! (I need to too though,)

And baby girl is good, I am holding her right now. She is soooo nosy. She a tough cookie too, much tougher than her sisters. Only cries when hungry.

Great thread! Subscribing for more stories!

exoticmommie I feel you! I'm at APL and I have long hair fantasies like yours all the time! Can't wait till I'm midback!

You two long haired divas need to contribute.

 

[Ms. Feliz]

*dreams of having long hair* sometimes when I'm looking in the mirror I tilt my head to the side just to see what I'd look like with hair down past my breasts.

 

[chasturner84]

Or bending over to pick up something and it all comes tumbling down, and having to flip it back.

Oh, I think about this EVERYDAY! I'd drop things just so I can bend over a pick it up and have my hair fall over my shoulders...

wow!!! thats funnyy, you sound like me. TMI but i be imagining making love with tailbone length hair and its swinging in slow mo

I dream of having MBL hair and having my hair in 2 long braids and my SO holding them like reins on a horse......yeah, I'd better get out of this thread LOL!

Nice thread, OP!

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Now you know I have imagined that as well.

DH is behind and my hair all over my back looking sessy.






please dont get me started becuase i have to say that long hair does make you want to have sex more becuase you feel sexy and womanly knowing that you what he wants, with the long hair and all.

not saying that short hair dont make you sexy, im just saying about long hair. i never seen a barbie doll with short hair. and didnt all the disney princesses have long hair?
i think most men lke the fairy tale look, and dont all the porn stars have LONG hair?

oh gosh, hope i dont get introuble sayin this stuff lol lol.

 

[Ms. Feliz]

Now you know I have imagined that as well.

DH is behind and my hair all over my back looking sessy.






please dont get me started becuase i have to say that long hair does make you want to have sex more becuase you feel sexy and womanly knowing that you what he wants, with the long hair and all.

not saying that short hair dont make you sexy, im just saying about long hair. i never seen a barbie doll with short hair. and didnt all the disney princesses have long hair?

You know what's weird is that when I wanted my boyfriend to touch my hair he never did. Now that i'm bunning it so it can grow he ALWAYS touches it and messes up my bun and i'm always screaming for him to stop touching my hair!!

 

[I Am So Blessed]

You know what's weird is that when I wanted my boyfriend to touch my hair he never did. Now that i'm bunning it so it can grow he ALWAYS touches it and messes up my bun and i'm always screaming for him to stop touching my hair!!

i dont know what it is about men and long hair. well i think long hair is very sexy, ima stop saying sexy now ok.

 

[SmilingElephant]

Well...since okay to sound a lil arrogant on this thread

I LOVE my long hair!! I love how it feels when the wind blows on it and i feel like Pocahantas. I love washing it in the shower.....and being able to experiment with different bun styles.

I feel so sexy with my hair down....and lately...since i cut my bangs like Lady Gaga style...i feel like this RockStar chick...lol!!

I love the compliments...i love that i can just throw it up in a bun or ponytail when i'm in a hurry and not worry about what to do with it.

I also love how it hides my scoliosis. Now i can wear halters and tube tops with my hair down and not get asked stupid questions at the wrong time!!

 

[exoticmommie]

I know that when I see some of the ladies on you tube and they mention they husband in passing I do wonder...:scratchch

But yeah DH can play in it just don't be pulling hair out. All that ain't necessary

But yes I ain't gonna lie will feel even sexier with the long hair, and I might have to try the pochantas thing.

 

[melodies815]

For real....Adora, don't get us shut down with the "sessy" talk. Teenagers read these posts too, and Beverly does not play around when it comes to appropriate content for families. I want to read this thread and hope it gets long with long-haired posts. No offense, okay?

I love your hair, though!!! It's so beautiful and thick. I dream of the day I have your length.

More posts, please!! I want to hear the real talk about how women with long hair feel with their hair. I don't think I have ever seen a thread like this one.

Great thread, OP!!!


cj

 

[I Am So Blessed]

"Now i can wear halters and tube tops with my hair down and not get asked stupid questions at the wrong time !! "


that cracked me up laughing cuz i know how you feel. and then you put that face, lmao. oh nooo