azul11
Well-Known Member
I am so upset right now. Last night the person who was supposed to help me do my touchup said they wont do it. /images/graemlins/angry2.gif I was like omg you said you would help me now you are changing your mind. I was ready to go and get my materials reading up on everything I could on doing a relaxer at home and now this. /images/graemlins/swearing.gif
Here is why they said no: They said because my hair is long and they dont want to mess my hair up and that other people have done at home touchups and their hair came out in clumps and they had to cut it short and they know how much I am into hair and they dont want that to happen to me. I said well the people didnt do it properly and they said well they werent going to do it because they are not that good at doing other people's hair and my hair is growing and looking good and they will pay for it to be done by a stylist to be safe.
I said I have been going to stylist for years who have jacked my hair up. I have paid for my hair to look like crap!! The only reason my hair is thriving is because of me. No stylist could ever lay claim that they helped my hair grow because I have been taking care of it, I have been doing the research and doing what needs to be done for my hair. Every stylist has done whatever they want and I ended up having to pick up the pieces afterwards. /images/graemlins/whyme.gif
I am highly upset because I was counting on this person to help me with the back of my head. This isnt about application its about being able to see how the hair is being process and whether there is sufficent application. I am discovering I have a lot of different textures going on in my head and some areas are looser than others. I was feeling around in some areas and the texture of the newgrowth and the previous hair was similar and some areas had a slight wave to it while others were more tighter. So the advantage of having someone see the back of my head and the top and sides is so they can see how processed the hair is so I dont end up underprocessed. I have two left hands and while I can do a rollerset it is not neat and I do take longer than the stylist but it still comes out better than how they do it BUT I dont want to that with my own head for a touchup.
They told me about this salon on the east side of 125 that some of my relatives go to and that someone they know who's hair reminds them of my mine gets it done and her hair is thick and long. They offered to pay for me to go there and told me I could just take care of my hair at home myself.
I am just so frustrated because now I have to deal with another stylist who will do whatever. I cant even think of anyone else who could help me because most of the people who could are not in the city and the people who are either go to salons or the most they do to their hair is flat iron or blow dry. I was so upset I dont even know what to do.
Should I buy some of the affirm products to strengthen my hair before this. I'm really mad. I cant believe this /images/graemlins/spank.gif God bless you all.
Here is why they said no: They said because my hair is long and they dont want to mess my hair up and that other people have done at home touchups and their hair came out in clumps and they had to cut it short and they know how much I am into hair and they dont want that to happen to me. I said well the people didnt do it properly and they said well they werent going to do it because they are not that good at doing other people's hair and my hair is growing and looking good and they will pay for it to be done by a stylist to be safe.
I said I have been going to stylist for years who have jacked my hair up. I have paid for my hair to look like crap!! The only reason my hair is thriving is because of me. No stylist could ever lay claim that they helped my hair grow because I have been taking care of it, I have been doing the research and doing what needs to be done for my hair. Every stylist has done whatever they want and I ended up having to pick up the pieces afterwards. /images/graemlins/whyme.gif
I am highly upset because I was counting on this person to help me with the back of my head. This isnt about application its about being able to see how the hair is being process and whether there is sufficent application. I am discovering I have a lot of different textures going on in my head and some areas are looser than others. I was feeling around in some areas and the texture of the newgrowth and the previous hair was similar and some areas had a slight wave to it while others were more tighter. So the advantage of having someone see the back of my head and the top and sides is so they can see how processed the hair is so I dont end up underprocessed. I have two left hands and while I can do a rollerset it is not neat and I do take longer than the stylist but it still comes out better than how they do it BUT I dont want to that with my own head for a touchup.
They told me about this salon on the east side of 125 that some of my relatives go to and that someone they know who's hair reminds them of my mine gets it done and her hair is thick and long. They offered to pay for me to go there and told me I could just take care of my hair at home myself.
I am just so frustrated because now I have to deal with another stylist who will do whatever. I cant even think of anyone else who could help me because most of the people who could are not in the city and the people who are either go to salons or the most they do to their hair is flat iron or blow dry. I was so upset I dont even know what to do.
Should I buy some of the affirm products to strengthen my hair before this. I'm really mad. I cant believe this /images/graemlins/spank.gif God bless you all.