Hi there ladies, hereâ€™s my problem - how to add moisture between washes especially to the ends . Oil and grease always breaks my hair of in my hand whilst I add it to my hair, and seems to make it weaker, just as if its wet. Iâ€™ve tried all the oils from red palm oil to coconut to mango butter. I can get away with it in the henna and pre wash just not when my hair is dry or as a sealant right before I dry. Any suggestions? Is the oil giving my hair to much moisture therefore it breaks? After I flat iron it , I could even comb or brush (I donâ€™t do brushing though) my hair without any breakage until I add oil, then off it comes! This is my current regimen: 1. Co wash or cow/moo wash 3-4 times a week (moisture) 2. 6 weekly aphogee treatments (protein) 3. Weekly - 10 day henna treatment (thickness/ strength ) 4. Always pre-poo with con + oil or treacle + sugar + lime (elasticity) 5.leave - ins - Nexus Humectress, Elasta QP H -two, and maybe V05 silk serum 6. Seal with serum (Chi) 7. Pat dry, wrap in silk, bonnet dry until 80 -90% dry, shake out then air dry the rest 8. Flat iron with more Chi or just finger comb and leave it 9. Baggie + silk wrap at night with a little infusion 23 10. Relax every 8 -10 weeks Am I missing something? One more question if I may, if oil and serum seals the moisture in, how do you add moisture to your when the original oil or serum is still on it? Am I right to keep washing the sealant off in order to let the moisture get at my hair before re - sealing it? Iâ€™ve been lurking for ages and only done a few posts. this is my first thread and nervous / excited to get a reply. I've pinched my regime from you all and its turned my hair around! so thank you thankyou so much. I have searched for the answer to this problem and cannot find it. If there is a thread about people who have experienced this please let me know? Thank you!