? On Pastor

Discussion in 'Christian Fellowship' started by Ayesha81, Oct 24, 2018.

  1. Ayesha81

    Ayesha81 Well-Known Member

    Blog Posts:
    2
    Joined:
    Jan 27, 2007
    Messages:
    2,738
    Likes Received:
    9,023
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Location:
    Mo' County, Maryland
    Good day ladies,

    Eta: The original post was all so silly still thanks for responding.
     
    Last edited: Nov 4, 2018
    nurseN98 and Shimmie like this.
  2. tolly

    tolly Well-Known Member

    Blog Posts:
    0
    Joined:
    Apr 18, 2010
    Messages:
    596
    Likes Received:
    2,126
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Location:
    ile wa
    I can’t say if you are too reactive, I wasn’t there .. none of us can
    However I think if you are uncomfortable don’t try to talk yourself out of your reaction- doesn’t matter if you are reading him wrong- just do what you need to remove yourself from that situation
    I wouldn’t have contact with people who make me uncomfortable
     
    nurseN98, Shimmie and gn1g like this.
  3. momi

    momi Well-Known Member

    Blog Posts:
    0
    Joined:
    Jan 21, 2006
    Messages:
    8,113
    Media:
    2
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    25,251
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Location:
    Somewhere out there
    At your stomach? Maybe he was trying to divert his attention from staring at you or maybe he was looking for a ring?

    Is he married?

    How was the sermon? Did he preach from the bible?
     
    Shimmie and Iwanthealthyhair67 like this.
  4. TrulyBlessed

    TrulyBlessed Well-Known Member

    Blog Posts:
    0
    Joined:
    Dec 19, 2003
    Messages:
    4,119
    Likes Received:
    34,733
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Location:
    Over here
    Maybe he wants you or wants to get you pregnant (even if he happens to be married). If you received mean/judgy vibes he could be a misogynist as well. Either way don’t let him make you feel down. Any pastor that makes me uncomfortable would never see my face again.
     
    nurseN98 and gn1g like this.
  5. Shimmie

    Shimmie "God is the Only Truth -- Period" Staff Member

    Blog Posts:
    0
    Joined:
    Mar 9, 2006
    Messages:
    33,420
    Likes Received:
    62,539
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Location:
    "Deep in His Heart"
    The only true answer comes from prayer. If he's at fault, he needs prayer. If he's being misunderstood, he still needs prayer. Either way, don't stay where you don't feel comfortable. Ask God to show you where you should be in the place of worship. The Holy Spirit will never mislead you.

    BTW: You are not under any obligation to remain at your co-workers church. If it's where you belong, God will secure your heart and give you His peace about it.

    Take care.
     

Share This Page