Sorry I didn't see this earlier Sbaker. For me, I received an impartation from someone else. That just means someone prayed for me. If they speak it in your church, ask someone to pray for you. If they don't, tell God you want it, and he'll make sure you get it. After the prayer, I had to just open my mouth and let it flow out. It is difficult at first, well it was for me, b/c I was worried I wouldn't say the right thing or sound like everyone else. I was able to start off, but then would worry if the words will just come out as me saying gibberish. When I close my eyes and focus on him (blocking out the negative stuff like mswinni said) it flows. It is a deep connection with him. But don't feel discouraged if you don't have it yet. I feel God's precense through praying normally as well. It is like a forgein language though. If you don't use it, you can lose it. I had to have it jump started in me again. I also need to work on saying it loud and not just mumbling it to myself.