This one is easy for me, because I only use:
1. moisturizing shampoo (Wella for dry hair)
2. moisturizing conditioner (Wella for dry hair)
3. deep conditioner (Wella for dry hair)
4. leave in conditioner (Africas Best or whatever it's called)
And I use either conditioner or deep conditioner.
It's taken me a loooooooooong time to get to this point, I think I was afraid to try going without cremes, greases, mousses, gels or oils of different kinds. The fact is that my hair looks and feels better now than it ever did! Softer, cleaner, ideal amount of curls/waves (ideal according to me of course). Life is so simple now that I don't need a lot of stuff to make my hair look good. I don't even use combs or brushes anymore.