Help! I got this beautiful weave for the first time for my birthday, but the thing is sooooooo tight!!!! Especially where she finished at the front edges and was tightening the thread... Knowing what I know from LHCF I don't want to have any thinning, scalp problems, etc..... I want to clip a thread or two, but I know it may kill my investment! Argghhh! Is there anything I can do to loosen this thing up??? Weave experts, need your wisdom! TIA! HHG!