Re: Wives Who Submit to Their Husbands: What Do You Submit to and How Does it Come Ab WOW!!! Thank you melodies815 for this post. I definitely can learn something from this whole thread. I am not married yet, however, I am in a new relationship with a man who truly loves the Lord. I have not been in a serious relationship for a few years now and I need to learn again as much as I can about this wonderful gift called "submission" to a man. Shimmie, thank you, thank you, thank you for starting this thread. This is one subscribed thread I am keeping.