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LittleLuxe said:
I think we need to remember every race has their own issues and complexes and it can manifest just as negatively and divisively.

I forgot where specifically where I read it but I recall reading in a magazine once a Chinese girl saying she was essentially happy with her appearance. But while she was content living in California she'd secretly dread going home to visit her family.

This was because while she was thin by most American standards she was considered 'fat' in general by society back home. If she was eating in a restaurant she'd see the waitresses make certain expressions if she finished her whole plate or asked for dessert.

She'd also be scolded for her skin being too dark (living in California) by her Mom and would find tubes of skin lightening cream on her pillow at night. She also said her mom approached her one day saying she'd found a Dr. who did nose jobs for some daughter of her friend and was all excited because he was cheap and did a good job.
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Completely ot and I'm sorry, but I had to comment on this, lol. My husband's best friend is Korean. He takes us to these AWESOME Korean restaurants whenever he comes to visit us. So while we were properly DESTROYING the food, He motions for our server to come over. In Korean he ordered us another round. The look on the servers face was priceless. He quickly spt something out back to our friend and they had this really quick weird dialogue and then the server wakled away. We were like, "The crap was that about?" and he told us the server thought we were gluttons for eating so much but he'll put the order through. The asians weight game is on a whole 'nother level.
 
Are all her YouTube vids so angry? And how many minutes did she devote to...well it's not really lying when you whole heartedly believe something someone lied to you about. In any case she is right, she's a flavor not meant for all, for the folks who like her though she is good at...doing what she does. For everyone else the best bet is to avoid the assault. :grin:
 
Msmchy said:
The asians weight game is on a whole 'nother level.
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No joke. I felt for the girl because I think the whole culture shock issue of being really comfortable most of the time and then having to deal with the perception of her family and that judgement the rest of the time.
 
ppl on the internet are so freakin extra. what kind of punk a$$, p*ssy a$$, mark a$$ sh*t id that to go running behind ppl to PM them about something that someone else said?! is this high school? it wasn't that serious to get himay10nence fired, but it was serious enough to give out ppl's personal info?! the ****?!

grown a$$ ppl turn into some 12 yr olds when they turn on their computer... smh.
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
So my question is, who on here is giving out people's personal information? Show yourself!
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Yeah, that is really, REALLY messed up. :nono:

It's really f*cked up that people were railing against her job being contacted, but then run and pm the girl's personal info to highmaintenence.

But this highmaintenence chick is just....so void of any class. I wonder what she does because I can't see her working in any professional type setting. She reminds me of one of those beligerent teenagers who thinks that just because someone says something to or about them, they've got to go off on the person.

And why does she care so much about what strangers on the internet have to say about her.
 
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^^^Well when those strangers are threatening her livelihood I think she has a right to say something about it.
 
A line was crossed. Threatening the livelihood of a stranger is irresponsible.
 
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ppl on the internet are so freakin extra. what kind of punk a$$, p*ssy a$$, mark a$$ sh*t id that to go running behind ppl to PM them about something that someone else said?! is this high school? it wasn't that serious to get himay10nence fired, but it was serious enough to give out ppl's personal info?! the ****?!

grown a$$ ppl turn into some 12 yr olds when they turn on their computer... smh.
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WELL DAMNNN!!!!

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(i think i love this girl)
 
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LittleLuxe said:
Are all her YouTube vids so angry? And how many minutes did she devote to...well it's not really lying when you whole heartedly believe something someone lied to you about. In any case she is right, she's a flavor not meant for all, for the folks who like her though she is good at...doing what she does. For everyone else the best bet is to avoid the assault. :grin:
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Speak for yourself babes *KanyeShrug*
 
cami88 said:
Yeah, that is really, REALLY messed up. :nono:

It's really f*cked up that people were railing against her job being contacted, but then run and pm the girl's personal info to highmaintenence.

But this highmaintenence chick is just....so void of any class. I wonder what she does because I can't see her working in any professional type setting. She reminds me of one of those beligerent teenagers who thinks that just because someone says something to or about them, they've got to go off on the person.

And why does she care so much about what strangers on the internet have to say about her.
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B/c thank you simply wasn't enough. Total lack of class....
 
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Sh!t just got real in HIMAY10NENCE video...this is why stay in my line and dun mess wiff people.


*still happily suscribed to her, tho* :lol:
 
ms-gg said:
:lachen::lachen::lachen:

I know right?!! I couldn't help but laugh when I saw that jawn.
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LOL! Sorry about that Ms-GG, but I was in a rush when I was posting.

I really wanted to comment the first time I read her post about sending the links to her job, but I said nah, stay quiet. Not important. It's only when she denied saying it that I felt the need to respond.

See, I know what it's like to be unemployed and not knowing where your next dollar is coming from. Struggling to make things happen and trying to control your sanity until things improve. Having to choose between buying food and toiletries is not a pleasant experience. I'm sure there are plenty of members on LHCF that are either going through the same thing or know people that are and probably in much worse ways.

The only good thing that came out of that experience was being forced to find cheap hair products to use and it curbed my PJ ways.

So to read how this poster wanted to see this woman get fired over some internet comments that didn't even concern her was too much for me. Like seriously, how dare you?

Then some people are saying that Himay10nence is not "classy" or "deviod of all class" all because of a few cuss words and derogatory comments (that again does NOT concern YOU), but I guess trying to get another black woman fired from her job in this economy is the definition of "classy"?

If so, then you can keep your "classy" and consider me "devoid of all class" as well cause I consider that mess the ultimate in foul. Just plain evil.

The worst part about it is Himay10nence made a youtube video commenting on a drama queen's "not getting a pamphlet and goody bag" at a nappy hair event cause "allegedly" the other naturals (4s) were looking her and down and making her feel not a part of the "sisterhood". *rolls eyes* Homegirl didn't just make ONE video about it, she had to make THREE all detailing this so called "disrespect" she's had to deal with "all her life". *violins playin*

Himay10nence may not be YOUR cup of tea and "not your type of sista", but she's MINE and obviously many others as well since people are sending her info on the poster who wants to get her fired.

Threatening to mess with people's money for trivial crap will catch you a bunch of enemies and sideyes, especially if said person is BLACK (regardless of whose type of "sista" she is).
 
jada1111: I agree with some of the points that you have articulated in regards to manipulating someones job situation. However, in regards to the comments relating to her "lack of class": this video isn't this chicks first ride at this rodeo. I think we can both agree that her videos include tirades in which she uses more than a "few" curse words. These tirades, combined with the fact that she can't/won't formulate a sentence without cursing, sucking her teeth, among other things, comes off as lacking some sort of normalcy, etiquette , and decorum i.e. class. I get that these youtube videos may be one of her schticks.....but I think they're too much. And yes, I know I don't have to watch her videos and believe me, I generally don't, but the thread piqued my interest.

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