PICS | Results of gradually abandoning regimen

Sieda

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PICS | Results of gradually abandoning regimen - 12.28.12 Update

I really underestimated the power of a regimen.
I began my journey with 5 ½ " of hair (measured from nape) in October 2009. Today, my the longest hairs are at 13 ½ inches (measured from nape). That is 894 days or 2 years and 5 months. If I maintained the below regimen, I am certain that I could have 20 inches of hair today that would be thick, healthy, and strong. My hair is meh/okay today with good length. I abandoned my full regimen 1.5 years ago when I passed APL and began wearing it straight EVERY DAY.

I have purchased too many products and read too many posts on this forum for too long to be at this place today. I just want this to be a PSA for the lurkers/participators who may achieve one hair goal (mines was BSL) and abandon the forum because your hair swings and you get compliments on your hair everywhere you go… that was me… and I know I’m not alone. Growth aides worked for me. Prior to LHCF I never had hair longer than ear length. Since I’ve been off them, my growth has been STAGNANT, I tricked myself into thinking that the growth and thickness came naturally, I got “brand new” on y’all. I deserve the breakage that I have today (haven’t trimmed in a year & I only sporadically search & destroy), I deserve the thinning (I stop garlic pills 60 days ago and bought a bottle of megatek and a steamer almost the same day and started steaming it in – bad choice), finally, I deserve the brittle meh looking hair (I abandoned my regimen below). So Ladies, hopefully this is somewhat helpful / useful. Anyone else receive a rude awakening from abandoning their regimen?


BTW – my compliments have slimmed down dramatically… I mention this because I was tricking myself to believe that my hair is still okay.

Regimen:
3X week exercising (blood circulation and does the body good), drinking 60+ ounces of water per day
Kyolic Candida Cleanse aged garlic – Daily | reduce shedding from MT
Nature’s Bounty Hair Skin & Nails – Daily | accelerate hair and nail growth
NJOY sulfur mix – 3X week
Megatek – will work with this “new” formula | accelerate hair growth and thicker hair (must use garlic supplements!)
Giovanni Clarifying Shampoo – 2X month | to remove buildup
MT (megatek) as a leave in – 2X week
Steam with MT – 1X month | penetrate, causes brittleness and EXTREME shedding without garlic and oils
Steam with hot oil treatment – 1X month | moisturizer

Other sporadic treatments:
Kesavardhini oil (diluted with olive oil) Kesavardhini enables the hair roots to grow strong and makes the hair long and lustrous
http://www.kesavardhini.com/
Neem oil - Monthly
Ayurvedic powders (Neem , Alma & Brahmi combo) – 2X month when I remember – must get consistent
Amla (Phyllanthus emblica): enriches hair growth and pigmentation. It prevents premature graying of hair, dandruff, increases the strength of hair follicles (thus preventing hair-fall).
Brahmi (Bacopa Monnieri) strengthens the hair roots, thus controlling hair thinning and hair fall. may help to make hair dark, dense and lustrous.
Dominican Silicon Mix/10 En 1 Shampoo

Protective style:
Curly weaves with little to no leaveout hair (always used a net, only silky thread (cloth thread breaks hair) or wigs and apply oils and growth aides with applicator bottle – last weave was Dec 2010… going back to weaves on 4/20/12

When I straighten my hair:
FHI platform (had the RUNWAY and I suggest you RUN AWAY thins hair and is overkill unless you are training your hair)
Heat protectant from sally’s sprayed on the top and bottom of every section Generic chi thermal protectant
Dry shampoo to stretch the straight hairdo

UPDATE 12/28/12:
I've been protective styling since this post, I received a haircut today to remove heat damaged ends (4 inches in some areas). I plan to wig/bun it until September 2013 to get length back. Not sure what I will do after that. I am extremely excited about thickness. I am using Alter Ego to combat shedding from MTek. I also did a bentonite clay with ACV mask today in preparation for the blow-dry. Working out (Insanity) and eating better to help with overall health and hair growth. HTH!

Sept 2009: Regimen in use



January 2011: Regimen in use


April 2011: STOPPED REGIMEN


March 2012:STOPPED REGIMEN


March 2012:STOPPED REGIMEN



December 2012: Protective style


December 28 2012: After haircut to remove heat damaged ends.
 
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amwcah

Well-Known Member
I feel you. I don't care to take supplements, but I recently vowed to myself that they are a must to get my thicker, stronger hair strands. I am glad to say that I have been faithfully taking them to date. Yeah!
 

*CherryPie*

Well-Known Member
Your hair looks the same in all 3 of the pictures to me.

You're doing a lot of stuff! Do you really need to do all of that?
 
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Sieda

New Member
Your hair looks the same in all 3 of the pictures to me.

You're doing a lot of stuff! Do you really need to do all of that?


I stopped doing most all of it, until today! I dont see progress, at all. IMO I also added a more useful list of photos with dates
 
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Sieda

New Member
I see a difference in thickness. I'm happy you caught it when u did. Very insightful. Nice thread OP!

EXACTLY! My hair stylist & associate told me in the nicest way "you went from having some of the thickest horsetail fake looking hair, to nice hair that is in trouble!" My texture also loosened up from all the flat iron usage.
 

*CherryPie*

Well-Known Member
Okay. I'm just getting it. LOL It's the same and not as thick. Okay.

Well, it's good that you caught it when you did. Your hair is so pretty though.
 

virtuenow

Well-Known Member
Thank you for sharing your story. You've scared me into a moisturizing session to begin immediately after I finish this post. How often were you straigtening. I had a similar experience w/my hair, noticed it didn't look the same, and the compliments virtually stopped. So I had to do a serious re-evaluation of my non existant regimen. Now I actually have one; and this encourages me to stick to it :). I also noticed our stats are the same, I'm 5'2" and 8in is APL, 11 in BSL, 13MBL, 15-16WL
 

Sieda

New Member
Thank you for sharing your story. You've scared me into a moisturizing session to begin immediately after I finish this post. How often were you straigtening. I had a similar experience w/my hair, noticed it didn't look the same, and the compliments virtually stopped. So I had to do a serious re-evaluation of my non existant regimen. Now I actually have one; and this encourages me to stick to it :). I also noticed our stats are the same, I'm 5'2" and 8in is APL, 11 in BSL, 13MBL, 15-16WL


I am happy that you are doing a re-evaluation. I feel like our hair can be unimaginably long and healthy with the tips on this board and the support! I straightened my hair once every 9 days so 40 or so times a year. May have been okay if I stuck to my regimen. What do you think? I won’t sit here and say I’ll never get back to straightening my hair. Your hair looks super thick BTW - Keep it up!
 
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virtuenow

Well-Known Member
I am happy that you are doing a re-evaluation. I feel like our hair can be unimaginably long and healthy with the tips on this board and the support! I straightened my hair once every 9 days so 40 or so times a year. May have been okay if I stuck to my regimen. What do you think? I won’t sit here and say I’ll never get back to straightening my hair. Your hair looks super thick BTW - Keep it up!

Thanks. The picture is old and that was my hair at its thickest. I think slowing down and straightening less will help. Perhaps semi-straight (blow-out w/twist out) and mixing it up w/other styles throughout the month could help. So once a month or every couple of months. I have not figured it out yet on how often is safe; but sticking to your reggie will definitely help. Going for a non-bone straight look is also a good idea, i think (hence Platform over Runway :))
 

DarkJoy

Bent. Not Broken.
Thanks for this post. Before LHCF, I never had a regimen besides washing once a week. You're post will keep me in-line. lol.

And yes, I can see that looks like it stopped growing and is not as thick. I also see less shine/luster. However, it's still lovely and in better shape than most (including mine!).

You did it once, you can get it back! Keep us updated on your progress. :)
 

Sieda

New Member
Thanks for this post. Before LHCF, I never had a regimen besides washing once a week. You're post will keep me in-line. lol.

And yes, I can see that looks like it stopped growing and is not as thick. I also see less shine/luster. However, it's still lovely and in better shape than most (including mine!).

You did it once, you can get it back! Keep us updated on your progress. :)


Will do! I'm excited about starting over again.
 

Jazala

Well-Known Member
How often were you flat ironing when you stopped your regimen?

I had to stop weekly heat usage because I noticed it was taking a toll on my hair thickness even though I DC'd and used heat protection every time.
 

Sieda

New Member
How often were you flat ironing when you stopped your regimen?

I had to stop weekly heat usage because I noticed it was taking a toll on my hair thickness even though I DC'd and used heat protection every time.

Once every 6-8 weeks. I was protective styling in between to hold me. So I essentially stopped the regimen AND increased the heat. Recipie for total disaster.
 

havilland

Magical Mythical Princess
i see that your hair looks longer, but not thicker. it's amazing what a consistent regi that works will do.

i jumped on a bandwagon in 2010 and my hair took a year to recover it's health and another year to recover length...NEVER AGAIN!

hair is a precious gem and should be treated as such.

good for you for noticing it's time to make a change. i am positive you will regain your gorgeous mane of thick hair. :)
 

SimJam

Well-Known Member
I had that realization last year when m hair basically made no progress in length. I re evaluated every step of my regimen and made the changes I needed.

Its always good to take the time to assess periodically so that we don't end up with a crises or set back
 

itismehmmkay

Well-Known Member
OP, this part had my :rofl:

I tricked myself into thinking that the growth and thickness came naturally, I got “brand new” on y’all. I deserve the breakage that I have today (haven’t trimmed in a year & I only sporadically search & destroy), I deserve the thinning (I stop garlic pills 60 days ago and bought a bottle of megatek and a steamer almost the same day and started steaming it in – bad choice), finally, I deserve the brittle meh looking hair (I abandoned my regimen below). So Ladies, hopefully this is somewhat helpful / useful. Anyone else receive a rude awakening from abandoning their regimen?


I think you have great hair, but I so get what you mean. And yes it is the power of consistency within a working regimen. I am always falling off lol. Always. But I am really going to push through this time and get the hair that I want.
 

Alta Angel

Well-Known Member
I received my wake up call after going to the stylist last week after 1 year with no heat (and not seeing my stylist). I really slacked off...I stopped washing/conditioning/steaming weekly in addition to adding henna to the rotation. The result is dry hair that has thinned at the ends. I could literally scream. But, I am putting on my big girl panties, purchasing a vat of DE Express conditioner, starting my weekly wash/condition/steams plus one extra steam with oil during the week. I will be using henna on my roots only every 6 weeks. I will also be going to the stylist 4-6 times a year so that I can nip things in the bud this time. Just damn...
 

offthechainliz

New Member
Wow you're hair looks great! I know what you mean. I've been on LHCF way to long not to have waist length hair by now but all the constant falling off the bandwagon really does take away progress. It's like you take one step forward and when you stop your reggie it moves you 3 steps back from where you started.
 
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