A Football Player’s Girlfriend Dumped Boiling Water On Him, And Now His Ncaa Career Is Over

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    Florida International tight end Jonnu Smith, the team’s second-leading receiver and a possible 2017 NFL draft pick, will not play another game for the Panthers
    after his girlfriend dumped a pot of boiling water on him in his dorm room.

    Smith suffered severe burns to his head, neck, back, shoulder and arm,
    according to an arrest affidavit obtained by the Miami Herald’s David Neal.

    Mary Gaspar, who is five months pregnant with Smith’s child, told police that
    she and Smith had been arguing throughout the day on Halloween.
    Explaining that she was feeling “feeling extremely emotional and stressed,
    ” she boiled a pot of water and then dumped it on him,
    also hitting him with open hands. Police have charged Gaspar with aggravated battery.
     
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    Possible NFL Draft pick... just ruined her meal ticket.

    Wishing him a speedy recovery.
     
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    This is a damn shame. Is she being prosecuted?? Pregnancy is tough, but emotional maturity and caring about the wellbeing of your child and self trumps all that.
     
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    Oh wow. That is crazy. So she just ruined this man's whole entire career. I could see if he was being abusive and hitting her, but that's just straight ridiculous. She needs to be prosecuted.
     
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    Too much ratchet tv

    I hope he makes a full recovery
     
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    If he was being considered for the draft hopefully they will consider him again once he's healed. I couldn't imagine the rage he must feel towards her. A shame that her sense of self-preservation wasn't enough to outweigh her crazy and now any relationship between child and father may be strained.
     
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    She needs to be prosecuted and put in jail! Anytime I hear about someone throwing boiling hot water on someone I get enraged.
     
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    Horrible. She needs to do time.
     
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    Yeah. She probably has been fooled into thinking this type of behavior is cute.
    You know what? I can see if she hit him upside the head during the argument. I could say she was in the heat of the moment.
    There's a reason why "a watched pot never boils" is an expression. It takes a minute between the time you put it on till the time it's finished boiling. She had time to think. She's going down for this one...as she should.
     
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    There are too many of these types of situations across America - what I see is a lack of resilience and the inability to cope with hurts and disappointments. So the only way to handle failures is to yell and destroy with no concern for the consequences.
     
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    So terrible. Him on the field and her mugshot.
    [​IMG]
     
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    If I was his mom, I'd be pushing him to get custody of the child and a protective order against her for him and the child. She is crazy as ****.
     
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    No Black women involved here, moving to another thread!
     
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    agreed...if he was so terrible she should have left him. Now she is the crazy criminal. How will they ever manage to coparent? She ruined his life!
     
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    I have 0 sympathy for men these days. You know he was probably treating her very poorly. I am sooo glad she is not black.
     
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    It doesn't matter how poorly someone is treating you. You don't pour boiling water on them. If they treating you poorly, don't get pregnant for them and leave. WTF? How can you condone this? He could have died.
     
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    It has never crossed my mind to throw boiling water on any living creature, only an evil savage would think like this.
     
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    Does pouring boiling water on garden snakes and grasshoppers who eat our orchids count :look: ?
     
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    Boiling hot water just seems inhumane to me. I'm not trying to see anything in pure gut wrenching agony.
     
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    tiffers Whisper "bleep boop" to yourself when you're sad.

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    I knew she was white as soon as I read this.

    He could have been killed. Aggravated battery?

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    Yeah, I feel nothing. I'm fully aware that what she did was wrong and wouldn't put myself in a position to go to jail over what I thought was a worthless man, but I have no emotion when I read these stories.

    These men will take you to the edge, but that's why I leave like I never knew them.
     
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    welp .... :abducted:
     
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    ...and they talk about how angry "we" get. Bet he would have took a good cussin' out over a pot of boiling water.
     
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    Beckies gon Beck.

    If that was my son I would make sure she was thrown under the jail.
     
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    I can understand her feeling violent esp during a pregnancy and I could understand her hitting him. But using boiling water? The level of cruelty involved is just beyond anything I can understand. She sounds like a psychopath.
     
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    I hope you don't mind if I steal this. :lol:
     
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    Any random can throw hot water. Sacrificing a pot of delicious grits means the love of a good woman was squandered.

    Oh well.

    Better luck with his next Becky.
     
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    Attempted murder. She needs to do time in prison and have her baby taken away to a safer caretaker.
     
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    Aggravated Assault? That's it? She should be charged with attempted murder (She poured that boiling water dead on his head while he rested). I don't condone any type of violent behavior unless you are physically protecting yourself. Regardless of how much they argued, even if he cheated on her, she could have left. That man is someone's father and son. If the situation was reversed and he poured boiling water on her because, you know, some women can push you over the edge like that too, there would be all kinds of unanimous outcries about how wrong he was. I guess what happens to black men only matters if they're your sons (even if he's with a Becky) or husbands. They're not all bad. :nono:
     
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