I am confident in my hair whether I choose to wear it straight or curly/kinky. I love BIG hair and wear it this way whether worn straight or curly. I love volume!
I will say though that I wear my hair curly/kinky 99.9% of the time and it is the look I love on me best. I didn't always feel this way, mostly because of the negative feedback I would receive from others when I first BC'd some years ago, but I shook off those negative comments and since then have grown to love what grows out of my head immensely by keeping it natural.
Now those who were not loving my natural tresses in ,my beginning are now singing a different tune and are amazed of how I (and others) can go from straight to kinky tresses all in one day.
Gotta LOVE natural hair and all of its wonders!