deborah11
Well-Known Member
i have been so depressed the last few days that i haven't even had the energy to post or come to the board. I have posted before regarding my problems in previously using a no lye relaxer, it did not straightedn my hair and while i had switched over to a lye relaxer- design essentials, my air still didn't get straight . it was thick and i would flatiron it to blend the textures since roots were straight. THIS IS MY PROBLEM: this past week i got a retouch and the beautician applied it to all of my hair in an effort to straightened out the previously no lye relaxed hair. it did not work. My hair is now overprocessed, thinned out and stringy and broken off in places. I am so depressed. you would not believe the tears that i have shade. i just feel like giving up. is there anyting that will help with overprocessed hair. i am going to get it cut this week. there is enuf that i can probabl get it cut in a short bob or i can trim the ends and wear it up to camoflough the damage temporarily. mabe it just not for me to have nice hair anymore. maybe i should just shave it all off and start over again. i have had such beautiful hair in the past and these last few months have been hair hell. i have never had a hair cut down to my scape b4 and i am terrified. sometimes, i just think that there is no other way. also i don't want any of the other underprocessed women on this board to go thru this experience./ PLEASE DON'T LET ANYONE APPLY RELAXER TO ANYTHING EXCEPT YOUR NEW GROWTH. Please pray for my strenght. I am in one of the darkest periods of
my life and . i feel so ugly and depressed.
my life and . i feel so ugly and depressed.