Prettyeyes
Well-Known Member
I went 8 months one time and relaxed in January. Then I stretched 4 months and relaxed again. Two failed transitions but I no longer see it as failure. I have BSL hair, I will never bc, I want to be MBL, so cutting is not of interest to me. This time I got a lye relaxer and am loving my hair, natural curls/coils are gorgeous but relaxed hair has many positives also. My mom relaxed my hair when I was 13 and now that I am BSL I am not cutting so I AM JUST ENJOYING MY HAIR. NO MORE SHAME. I AM ACCEPTING MYSELF THIS WAY!!!!!!