So I am relaxing tonight and still havent decided which to use. I previously used Silk Elements (lye) burned the heck out of me although I didnt get any scabs or anything.. then I went to the salon 16 weeks ago and let a stylist relax me and she used affirm (lye) didnt burn as bad, but I am self relaxing tongiht and am not sure which brand I want to us. I am in Denver, so its dry out here so I want something that will not give me the limp dry relaxed look, I want my hair shiny, silky and straight.. so ladies suggest your relaxer and tell me why!! TIA.