Chocolatelove2010
New Member
Sorry.. I just feel to vent.
I can take jokes, and before I would only hear a hair joke maybe once a year. But now my family know I'm on a hair journey I hear it daily. The first few days were ha... ha.. ha funny But now even my mum is getting in on them.
My lil cousin had really long hair and I found out today she cut it. I just said to my mum 'aww that's sad, it was really long down to her hip why did she do that'' my mum (aware I'm on my hair journey) replies ''Yeah but her hair grows quickly, not the type of hair you have to say Pleaseeeeeeeeeee, Pleaseeeeeeeeee, Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee... Grow.''
Then I have my brother to deal with. He comes into my room and says 'How are your drugs coming along'' (he's talking about my Multi-Vitamins) and ''Damn you need ALL these products for your hair to grow''
I wish I kept my hair journey a secret, because I'm the butt of all jokes in my household, at the moment. So right now I'm pretending to not care for my hair, and secretly go into the bathroom to moisturize and condition. This what they've driven me to.
It's because my mum's hair is to her tailbone, and all she does is comb and oil. That's enough for her hair, she doesn't need to deep condition or seal at night blah blah. And in my household the 'myth' of if you have afro texture hair - it wont grow is something strongly believed, hell I believed it until I stumbled across youtube videos and this website, so now I know better. But it seems they still don't. I've tried to educate them, and although now they acknowledge afro texture hair does grow.. they still
They just see my hair journey as a joke really, and that my hair will never grow lreally long. But even if it does and I suprise them, I know they'll never let me live down how much work I put in. I'd be like ''Look my hair grows, don't hate'' and they'd reply ''Yeah but You used drugs and a 1,000 hair products.''
*breathes in*
:thatsall:
Wow, venting really does make you feel better. *sigh
Do you keep your hair journey a secret?
I can take jokes, and before I would only hear a hair joke maybe once a year. But now my family know I'm on a hair journey I hear it daily. The first few days were ha... ha.. ha funny But now even my mum is getting in on them.
My lil cousin had really long hair and I found out today she cut it. I just said to my mum 'aww that's sad, it was really long down to her hip why did she do that'' my mum (aware I'm on my hair journey) replies ''Yeah but her hair grows quickly, not the type of hair you have to say Pleaseeeeeeeeeee, Pleaseeeeeeeeee, Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee... Grow.''
Then I have my brother to deal with. He comes into my room and says 'How are your drugs coming along'' (he's talking about my Multi-Vitamins) and ''Damn you need ALL these products for your hair to grow''
I wish I kept my hair journey a secret, because I'm the butt of all jokes in my household, at the moment. So right now I'm pretending to not care for my hair, and secretly go into the bathroom to moisturize and condition. This what they've driven me to.
It's because my mum's hair is to her tailbone, and all she does is comb and oil. That's enough for her hair, she doesn't need to deep condition or seal at night blah blah. And in my household the 'myth' of if you have afro texture hair - it wont grow is something strongly believed, hell I believed it until I stumbled across youtube videos and this website, so now I know better. But it seems they still don't. I've tried to educate them, and although now they acknowledge afro texture hair does grow.. they still
They just see my hair journey as a joke really, and that my hair will never grow lreally long. But even if it does and I suprise them, I know they'll never let me live down how much work I put in. I'd be like ''Look my hair grows, don't hate'' and they'd reply ''Yeah but You used drugs and a 1,000 hair products.''
*breathes in*
:thatsall:
Wow, venting really does make you feel better. *sigh
Do you keep your hair journey a secret?