Black College Wire article - Natural Hair and Nappy Heads

BostonMaria

Well-Known Member
I saw this on Naturallycurly (thanks Ellie Pixie) and just shook my head till it almost popped off LOL This is so ignorant. To think a college student wrote this hot mess of an article.... SMDH I hope it doesn't discourage anyone from going natural

Entire article here: http://www.blackcollegewire.org/index.php?option=com_ywp_blog&task=view&Itemid=36&id=5853

Natural Hair and Nappy Heads
By Kamilah Blackston -- Black College Wire

I wholeheartedly believe that the natural hair craze is becoming a trend if it is not one already. In the same way that many females follow and copy Rihanna's hairstyles and Nicki Minaj's pink lips, this is the same path that the natural hair trend is following.

Everybody cannot wear short hair. Everybody does not look good with bright pink lips. Only a handful of females can pull off a short hair cut, let alone natural hair.

Unfortunately, if you are one of those few, there are hardly any hair stylists in Greensboro that actually know what they are doing.

A lot of girls stray from who they are by trying to be like other people. If we all did the same thing, nobody would be different and I feel it is safe to say that a lot of girls on this campus are starting to look just alike.

Women need to find out what looks good on them and what does not.

If your head is bigger than your body, short hair might not be the way to go. If your hair is dry, brittle, and extremely nappy, natural hair is just not for you.

A lot of girls need a wakeup call. Some girls might just have to resort to a perm if the texture of their hair is not too pretty. If you know your hair does not grow, you might want to consider getting a sew-in and keeping one.

We all try to be queens and some people feel like going natural is getting back in touch with your roots. However, if you are looking more like a slave than a queen, you might want to take a trip to the beauty supply store and get some perm or weave.

This natural hair trend is getting out of control. I hate that girls walk around thinking that natural bush is fly when it is not. Ladies, please go do something to that head because that bush is making you look foolish.

Regardless of what guys may say about females' hair, or what looks good on somebody else does not necessarily mean it looks good on you. The sooner women realize what looks good on them and what does not, the better off they will be.

Maybe after reading this, some people will take this advice as constructive criticism and get their life together.

As for the males who have something to say about every aspect of a female's appearance, do not think you are so GQ that you can't use some tips. I can go on (about) scruff, unkempt hairlines, and dusty locs all day. Some of you need to get your lives together as well.

Natural hair looks good on some people, but everybody cannot pull it off!

Individuality is what makes people interesting, but lately the only thing interesting about many girls is that mess on their heads.

Kamilah Blackston writes for The A&T Register, the North Carolina A&T University student newspaper, which originally published this article.

Articles in the Voices section reflect the opinions of the individual writers and do not represent the views of Black College Wire. :rolleyes:
 
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tHENATuRALhAiRpRoJEcT

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"I've been seeing a lot of tweets from males criticizing how females dress, act, and especially how they wear their hair. Some of the tweets that I read said things like, 'Natural hair is sexy;" "I hate weaves;" "If you wear weave, don't talk to me;" and "Natural Hair Rocks!""

"While talking to a male friend of mine, I asked him his thoughts on girls going natural. He said that he preferred natural hair and that he hated weaves with a passion."


she could have gotten help analyzing these statements before writing this... it appears the BOYS were equating NATURAL with wearing your own hair, vs NOT WEARING WEAVES


 
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nappyeditor

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Wow. I was very surprised to see that the author is natural herself. As a natural head, I find her comments very insulting. I understand that everyone has his/her own opinions and if natural hair is not for you, great, pass on the style. But why insult other women who have gone natural because they don't meet YOUR standard of who should/shouldn't go natural?

As for the part about going natural but having a gut, eh, oranges and apples.
 

Meritamen

On a happy hair journey
This article is so poorly written it's pitiful. I thought there was going to be a really good argument made but I don't see one. The writer is obviously offended that any woman would want to have a "nappy bush."
She picked one reason and ran with it.

And so what if it's a trend? I don't mind it. When the "trend" is over those that are not that into their kinks will do whatever it was they were doing to it before and those who do like it will remain. Plus, there are so many more products, hairstyles, and stuff to try now that people are paying more attention to kinky hair. So I love it.

I love how she says to not care what men are saying but to basically listen to her and get that nappy **** permed asap! :lachen::lachen::lachen:
I think I laughed more than anything really. I wonder if this chick is going for a journalism degree? She would be great on one of those FOX news shows.
 
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JayAnn0513

I make 30 look good!
I'm more upset that the Editor of the NCA&T paper thought this article was well written enough to publish. Her writing is poor, even if you agree with her points ( which are dumb as heck).


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tHENATuRALhAiRpRoJEcT

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we must admit.... most men hate guts, and most men hate weaves:lachen::lachen:

but someone should may PM her to let her in on that most men hate buzz cuts and androgynous looking women as well:look:
 

SND411

A True Soldier Never Dies
Like I've said before: there are people out there who HATE black women loving and showing off their natural hair. They rather us "nappy heads" envy others because having a secure black women who KNOWS that the pervasive beauty standard is NOT absolute and feeling comfortable in their own skin makes them burn inside.
 

davisbr88

Well-Known Member
I'm more upset that the Editor of the NCA&T paper thought this article was well written enough to publish. Her writing is poor, even if you agree with her points ( which are dumb as heck).

EXACTLY what I was thinking.
If she would have submitted this for publication for my undergraduate paper, many of my not-so-subtly racist co-writers might have agreed, but definitely would have thrown it out anyway because it is so poorly-written. Regardless of whether or not it is an opinion column, the school newspaper should still be viewed as a professional platform for conveying information. This sounds like something that should be on a blog (or in a convo with her homegirl), and not distributed amongst the masses.
 

LongLeggedLife

New Member
And this is her pic??


Was this written just to blow smoke up her own a$$...like "I obviously look great with short natural hair, but you all don't/won't look like me"
"I'm one of the select few.."

Girl sit down:smh:
 

Lynnerie

Well-Known Member
Wait a min. And this chick is the author? Get outta here! So its ok for her to be free from chemicals but not other black women?

Is this a case of natural hair envy? Could sista-girl be mad that other women are going natural and lookin better than her? Justsayin.:look:
 

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LuvlyRain3

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Sounds like she equates her individuality with her natural hair and with so many women going natural she is starting to feel small

..... I know I'm reaching but yeah......

I mean if she said that some people need to learn how to properly care for and style their natural hair then ok I could see where she was coming from. But to suggest that they perm their hair because she feels some type of way???? Yeah ok sweetie.
 

EllePixie

New Member
I was thinking that she is one of those annoying naturals who "did it first" and are now mad that other women are going natural and rock it better than she does so she's mad that it's a "trend." Now, she isn't the only bald girl on campus and doesn't get the attention of being unique. Po' chile. :rolleyes:
 

Sonye93

Active Member
Maybe after reading this, some people will take this advice as constructive criticism and get their life together.

Let her take her OWN advice, maybe after reading THIS (and the rest of these posts) she'd take it as "constructive criticism" and get HER "life together."
 

davisbr88

Well-Known Member
I was thinking that she is one of those annoying naturals who "did it first" and are now mad that other women are going natural and rock it better than she does so she's mad that it's a "trend." Now, she isn't the only bald girl on campus and doesn't get the attention of being unique. Po' chile. :rolleyes:

:yep:
And I wonder how long it was after Amber Rose came out that she went bald...
Since it's a "trend."
 

BostonMaria

Well-Known Member
Maybe after reading this, some people will take this advice as constructive criticism and get their life together.

In order to get my life in order I need to get a relaxer and lose my gut
Why am I going to college? I'm quitting today!
 

reeko43

Well-Known Member
Why does this broad think she is the gatekeeper of the natural hair sorority? People have to submit
their application to her to show that their reaon for going natural is legit in her eyes?
So what if it is a trend for some. At least it is a positive one! You would think she was
Writing about students drinking gin and Red Bull!! She needs to get her life together,
stop performing for attention and say no to drugs cause she definitely was hitting somebody's
pipe while working on that poorly written scrap :(
 

nappystorm

Well-Known Member
I understand short hair doesn't look good on everybody (because I am busted with extremely short hair) but I will never understand the "you can't wear the hair that naturally grows out of your head" sentiment.
 
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