Experienced that common problem of products not mixing and resulting in flakes today. Yesterday I bought Aunt Jackie's gel and curl lala. I washed my hair and dc'd with a new conditioner - Joico moisture balm.. which I really liked.
I used the curl lala and it literally glided and melted into my hair, when I put the matching gel on top it started to ball up however the products made my wet hair feel really nice and slippery and soft and detangled. Today my twist out is defined, soft, not greasy but I can see the white flakes. I google'd this and the test was to take both products and rub your palms together to see if the products mix well. After I did my twists I added some APB hair cream and the gel in my other hand -- voila! Both played well. Guess next wash day I will use the APB cream in lieu of the curl lala underneath the gel. It's cool, I'll use the curl lala mid week as a styler.
OAN - I'm rethinking the possibility of cones in my regimen. I used the Joico conditioner and I loved it. I haven't used a cone conditioner in YEARSSSSSSSSSS that I would keep using. I can tell when I used it that my hair felt a little different than my usual cone free organic conditioners. Once I washed out the Joico, my hair had a smoothness that's a little different than when I use non cones. Even the Curl Lala has dimethicone and in spite of the white flakes, my hair just feels smoother today and light... not greasy and bushy. I might have to mix up my products some. Luckily the weather is cooler now so there's no humidity, but whew in the summertime I can definitely see how the products with a few cones could come in handy dealing with humidity and frizz. Yesterday was very humid here and damp.. my hair was a frizzed out bush by the time I reached out. It was soft and def not dry but it was a frizz ball. Today things are very tame lol.