How old were you when you got your first perm?

ChrissyB

New Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #1

I have been wondering what my hair would look like it I went natural. Then it hit me! I didn't get my first perm until I was 14 years old, so all of my pics before that age show me exactly what it used to look like! Some people here have mentioned that they don't know what their natural hair looks like besides a couple inches of new growth.

How old were you when you starting getting your hair relaxed?

Siggy pic is me around 6 (?) years old. I love my waves, it's my inspiration for transitioning!!

 

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Songbirdb

New Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #2

I was in middle school. 13 or 14

 

JustKiya

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #3

I was 14, and I had been begging for one for about a year and a half.

 

cutiebe2

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #4

I was nine....but my 11 I was natural again. My hair is too fragile for that stuff

 

LiveLoveLife

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #5

I got one my junior year in high school...so about age 16/17. Sad day in my life

 

Lanea87

Natural Gang Gang Gang

• Jan 12, 2008

• #6

erplexedMy momma says I was 6 I am saying 7..... We sitting her fussing over that 1 year.

 

fivetimestwo

New Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #7

I got my first chemical process (jherri curl ) when I was six...wow that's too young for chemicals imo, but I guess my mom just didn't want to be bothered with doing my hair. This was the beginning of a summer of hair disasters (can you say "swimming pool" ).

 

bludacious

New Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #8

I was 21. I begged and begged for a relaxer since elementary. My mom was going to let me when I was in middle school but our beautician(who was a neighbor and good friend of my mom) refused to put one in my hair. I finally got one when I was old enough to pay for it on my own. I was in college and could finally afford it.

 

Dayjoy

Old School Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #9

I got mine for my 6th grade graduation, so I was almost 12yo. We had to keep it a secret from my grandmother though.

 

drasgrl

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #10

I was 13 when I got a Kiddie Kurl (kids version of a Jheri Curl) I was 16 when I got my first relaxer.

 

moni_kerr

New Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #11

Oh I sooo remember! I was getting older and growing out of the pigtails and twisties on top of my head and I wanted to straighten my hair sooo badely! My ma was cheap so no salon nor flat irons for me lol. Picked up a $5 box of relaxer and did it myself right before the 7th grade. I relaxed my hair myself till like the 10th grade haha I'm surprised i didn't make myself go bald!

 

amber815

Active Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #12

I didn't get one til I graduated HS. I was 16. I THOUGHT I needed one so I could take care of my hair better once I went away to school. ...yea right...
My hair has held up pretty good though

 

dream13

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #13

I was about 11 y/o. My auntie used a PCJ kiddie perm. It burned like heck, and made my hair stiff and flat...erplexed. My mother was .

 

Cichelle

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #14

I think I was 12 or 13. I wish someone had taught me how to take care of my natural hair instead. I just had no idea.

 

blue_flower

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #15

I was 6 years old when I got my first perm. I had a ton of hair at that page, but 6 years old was too young to put a perm in my hair.

 

BioGeekChic

New Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #16

I was either 4 or 5 my mom isn't sure. She says that my hair was getting to thick and long and she was having trouble pressing it and dealing with it so to make her life easier she just permed it.

 

Cxshortie

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #17

I was 14 years old just in high school, that was when my mom stopped doing my hair, she said once I got a perm I was on my own.

 

DayStar

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #18

21.....

 

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inthepink

New Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #19

I was 12 years old. I remember that the relaxer "didn't take" when it was applied. So after it was rinsed out, the stylist applied again. BOY, did that burn like heck!!

 

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TrendySocialite

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #20

At age 5 my mom took me to the hair salon and told them to put one in my hair or she was bringing me to the stylist's house every day for him to do my hair...LOL

I NEVER had a problem with my relaxers. My stylist was great and I kept every bit of my length and thickness.

I've never been natural.

 

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BlueEra

Well-Known Member

• Jan 12, 2008

• #21

I was around 4 or 5 from what I can remember. My youngest picture that I can remember seeing myself with relaxer in, I was around 4 and my hair wasn't even very long to be getting it relaxed. I wouldn't know my naturl hair texture even if it bit me in the face. Surprisingly, my hair flourished with relaxers, and I only had trouble with my hair growing after a very bad experience with micro braids during the summer before 7th grade.

 

asubeauty

Well-Known Member

• Jan 13, 2008

• #22

I was about 7. I don't know what my natural hair looked like because my mom was always trying to make it look straight in every pic.

 

poookie

Well-Known Member

• Jan 13, 2008

• #23

six

 

SmartyPants

New Member

• Jan 13, 2008

• #24

I was 13. My mom made me wait. It was a right of passage thing--teenager, eighth grade graduation, confrmation. I was so good at doing rollersets (my mom drew a bright red line in the sand on blow dryers and curling irons) that I started doing hers. It's a good thing I wasn't greedy; otherwise, I would have charged her half of what she had been paying her hair dresser (half because she bought the stuff and paid for my relaxers).

 

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Starr1

New Member

• Jan 13, 2008

• #25

Never had one. . . my mama wouldn't let me as a child and I can't be bothered with the maintainance as an adult.

 

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locabouthair

Well-Known Member

• Jan 13, 2008

• #26

I was 11.....

 

janee

Member

• Jan 13, 2008

• #27

I was either 9 or 10. I begged to get one. Not because I wanted straight hair. But I saw it as an alternative to getting my hair pressed. I hated getting my hair pressed.

 

Miss*Tress

Well-Known Member

• Jan 13, 2008

• #28

16 - but only because I didn't know how to style my natural hair. Now that the relaxer has grown out, I continue to use the same styling techniques I learned when relaxed and my hair looks no different. What a waste of time and money over the years, not to mention the 2-year period when stylists over processed my hair claiming the ends had reverted.

 

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*Happily Me*

Well-Known Member

• Jan 13, 2008

• #29

I was 5 and I had major breakage

 

blackmaven

Anything Is Possible

• Jan 13, 2008

• #30

I begged all through high school for relaxer. My mother flat out refused. Finally,paid for relaxer myself at 18 working part-time senior year of high school.