PanamasOwn
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This has been a question that has LONG, troubled me. I have a very loving, very supportive, man in my life. We have built a relationship based on trust, God, friendship and love. Most of which was established before we made love. Honestly, alot of it was for my own reasons (see masturbation and single christians thread for more information)
So now it has been 3 years that we have been together and the sounds of wedding bells I believe are ringing soon. But since we have established so much, I wanted to try to take things to another level on a spirtual basis. I wanted for us to become celibate until our wedding day, so that we can spend even more time, focusing on each other and our relationship with God. I think every couple can ALWAYS improve their relationship with God, because it is never perfect. And since we started our relationship with God being a primary source, I know nothing will tear us apart.
My question is the following: We have not done 100% everything right before the eyes of the Lord in our relationship (pre-marital sex). But surpringsly, we dont even practice it that much. (like every 3 to 4 months), Can we still have a successful and lasting marriage, despite our shortcomings? Do you know anyone else like this, or have you experienced this yourself?
So now it has been 3 years that we have been together and the sounds of wedding bells I believe are ringing soon. But since we have established so much, I wanted to try to take things to another level on a spirtual basis. I wanted for us to become celibate until our wedding day, so that we can spend even more time, focusing on each other and our relationship with God. I think every couple can ALWAYS improve their relationship with God, because it is never perfect. And since we started our relationship with God being a primary source, I know nothing will tear us apart.
My question is the following: We have not done 100% everything right before the eyes of the Lord in our relationship (pre-marital sex). But surpringsly, we dont even practice it that much. (like every 3 to 4 months), Can we still have a successful and lasting marriage, despite our shortcomings? Do you know anyone else like this, or have you experienced this yourself?