GraciousMystique
New Member
This year I've committed to wearing a bun faithfully. My bun is nothing out of the extraordinaire. It's medium sized and is in fact kind of frizzy on the top and especially in the nape area.
But random people keep on weave checking my bun? This past week, while walking up the stairs in the courthouse, this black chick was coming down the steps she stopped briefly on a step above me. She then proceeded to quickly look at the top of my hair, maneuvering her head and eyes around quickly, checking for tracks. She then ran down the steps quickly.
At school while I was walking past a row of desks this guy just sits up from a previously slouching position at his desk-- so he can see above me(I'm short) and starts taking a blatant hard stare at the top, back and sides hair while I was headed to my seat. Other times during the semester, he would sit behind me and stare at my hair bun ( I could feel his eyes on me).
In a food store I often frequent, there's this Korean cashier woman who once asked "Is that all your hair" and I although I replied "Yes" she still feels the need to stare at the back of head whenever I turn to exit the store.
These are isolated incidents, but there have been more. I thought weave checks were known to happened frequently when one wore their hair down. I find it strange a track check is happening with my hair up, showing no length at all.
Any of you experienced being asked about your hair/weave check while wearing your hair in a bun?
But random people keep on weave checking my bun? This past week, while walking up the stairs in the courthouse, this black chick was coming down the steps she stopped briefly on a step above me. She then proceeded to quickly look at the top of my hair, maneuvering her head and eyes around quickly, checking for tracks. She then ran down the steps quickly.
At school while I was walking past a row of desks this guy just sits up from a previously slouching position at his desk-- so he can see above me(I'm short) and starts taking a blatant hard stare at the top, back and sides hair while I was headed to my seat. Other times during the semester, he would sit behind me and stare at my hair bun ( I could feel his eyes on me).
In a food store I often frequent, there's this Korean cashier woman who once asked "Is that all your hair" and I although I replied "Yes" she still feels the need to stare at the back of head whenever I turn to exit the store.
These are isolated incidents, but there have been more. I thought weave checks were known to happened frequently when one wore their hair down. I find it strange a track check is happening with my hair up, showing no length at all.
Any of you experienced being asked about your hair/weave check while wearing your hair in a bun?
