Ebonygurl00
New Member
I came home from the salon a few hours ago, so I've calmed down a little. I had a horrible salon experience today! I got a touch-up after 9 weeks, and I only go when I need a touch-up. She puts the perm on without basing, so that was no-no #1. She then proceeded to run the relaxer all through my hair, stopping just short of the ends. My scalp was screaming bloody murder, but when I told her, all she did was spray some kind of oil sheen on my scalp, which made it burn worse. Finally, she rinsed it off when she noticed that my scalp was really red. My scalp has never had so many sores on it. Afterwards, she combs me out with this tiny-toothed comb from the roots down to the ends very roughly. I could hear my poor hair breaking. I looked at the comb, and it was FULL of my hair. She then puts me under a HOT hooded dryer, THEN blow-drys me with the handheld blowdryer even though my hair and scalp was dry as sin already. Then she flat-irons my hair like in that video that was posted a few days ago. THEN she tells me that I need a trim, so she CUTS my hair!! Aferwards, she tells me that my ends were looking great, she just wanted to cut my hair into a "style." She cut my hair to my shoulders. My hair was cut to shoulder-length in May, so I lost 4 months of progress. She charged me $85 ($10 of it for my "cut"), and I left. I complained to my mom about it, and she said that she did the SAME exact thing to her yesterday!! My mom didn't tell me! She cut my mom's hair into this HORRIBLE cut. It's an inch long in front, and shoulder-length in back. Anyways, I told my mom that I wanted to start relaxing my own hair. She said NO, because the professional should do it, and because she made my hair look "nice." All my mom cares about is if my hair looks nice, not if it's healthy. So now I don't know what to do. My mom won't let me self-relax, and my hair breaks after the 8-week point. I need some advice! Sorry this is so long, I'm so upset!!