Using it before neutralizing--Interesting!
Well, when I came to the board I was relaxing every 4 weeks. The Ladies quickly educated me and I promised to try and make it to 6. I don't know though, I'm at 3 weeks and 5 days with MUCH more new growth than I ever had before. I am struggling to make it.
This was my issue as well (learning how to stretch) however I NEVER did every 4 wks.
I would do at least 8. I'm a type 4a/b so I KNOW it gets hard to tame the beast called ng
, but if you can conquer this your hair will thank you, I just came off a 12 wk. stretch, I will not go longer than this because if the shedding & knotting. I will say cowashing help TREMENDOUSLY the closer it got to touch up time, especially since I couldn't get a comb through the dry hair. I would cowash, lightly detangle with wide toothed comb, apply my MT/OCT , whatever oil I wanted to my scalp ( usually an Ayurvedic ) moisturize ends & seal with oil. Then I would put it in a pony & tuck the ends under & tie down with scarf, the next morning I would
reapply moisture to the ends. THIS IS ESSENTIAL when using MT/OCT to balance out the protein & to keep ends from being dry & popping off during the stretching process. I will NOT attempt to comb my hair at this point, just slick it back in the original pony & apply a fake bun. We are so use to how the hair feels when it's straight. After 4wks. be prepared to getting use to it being au natural......... Using something heavy to help hold the edges down & scarfing at night really helped. Some Ladies SWEAR by the QP Mango Butter. HTH