I know there are some serious wig wearing divas on here... so I need to tap into your knowledge here for a minute. It seems like my favorite wig is reaching the ratted out stage way earlier than I would like- and I've already tried soaking it in some fabric softener and letting it dry. The ends, especially in the back, and getting really tangly, rough and just busted looking. What can I do, apart from shelling out for another wig? Tips please! I think I remember hearing something about dipping it in hot water or something... but I don't know and I don't want to do anything crazy and mess up my baby more than she already is.