That fool...
Lol jk. He's Mexican and I'm only the second black girl he's been with. (We dont talk about the other one
)
He washes, conditions, and puts conditioner on his hair as a leave in (like a lot of natural ladies here do... I've got too much relaxed ends to even want to attempt that stuff) and it works for him. So hes always asking why I dont do it.
I know he's seen me do my hair cause I can hear him complaining that I take too long to straighten it and that I should just leave it curly or whatever it looks like. When I try to explain that I'm transitioning, he asks, why dont you just stop straightening? He doesnt get it... He also asks me all the time why I wash every 2 days (or every other day or every 3-4 days, depends) instead of everyday like him.
So that fool (and believe me, they all are) would probably come out with "She doesn't wash it everyday and she takes like an hour to straighten it and has too much hair stuff. I think she should wear it curly but she always has excuses and says its not long enough yet."