One of my suitemates NEVER has anything postive to say about my hair.
EVER.
When shesees me styling/ DCing/ looking crazy around the apt with flexirods and clips and shower caps, she cuts a side-eye, and when I style my hair wearing it big/ braid outs/ flexi-rod-outs, she always critiques it, like "that doesnt look good. i know you're going for the messy look but it doesnt look good". FALSE. Wasn't going for "messy", going for "natural". She's relaxed/ chronically overprocesses her hair, quick to fry and dye in a second. I don't want to chalk it up to jealousy, but I don't see why she can't just be supportive of a different style/ hair personality.
Ugh, it just bothers me. I think she doesn't like my hair because she's seen me go from a full head of almost APL relaxed and color treated to SL natural in about a year and a half, and only the ends of my hair still have the brown color I dyed it with the spring before last. Instead of finding the positive (ohwow, your hair looks cool, or 'hey that's different'), she just...downplays it, and says my hair will fall out. -_- too much.
She's always "encouraging" me to get my hair cut, even when I know it doesn't need to be...ANYWAY.
Haters gonna hate.
<3 PSping and bunning and baggy-ing and braid-outing my way to the hair I wat!!