so....i know i said i'd do the big chop last weekend. It didn't happen.
Had a LONG talk with the bf on Friday. I mean long. Like hours, I think. I demanded we come to an agreement over this hair situation. He finally, after much discussion, saw my side of things....
His man brain: She wore weave for me for a long time, almost all year. She's over it. Women like to change up their hair. He understands now.
So we are on the same page about that. But he still had his one request: Please do not cut your hair short. He doesn't care if i'm natural or relaxed. At all. He just prefers past SL hair with volume. That's it. Anything and everything else in between he can live with. So after much headbutting, that's our agreement. I can AND WILL do whatever I want with my hair short of cutting it under SL.
I know this disappointed some of my RL friends and probably will disappoint some of you, but I feel like in a relationship, I have to consider the feelings of my SO. He may be stubborn but so am I. I'm just glad we are on the same page about things. Cuz yall, I was stressed!!
So I'm gonna revise some of my 2015 hair goals lol.