My hair is natural and strong and growing longer daily. My only problem is the way it looks. It just doesn't look shiny or moisturized. It might be healthy but I want it to look more silky or luxorious. Is the only way with a flat iron and heat? Or can I get this look with heavy silicones? (I've heard such negative things about silicones causing long-term breakage that I'm afraid to use heavy silicones or pure silicone ) I tried a shine spray and the results were neglible at best. Its hard for me to feel that my hair looks professional or attractive instead of looking dull and rough and juvenile without improvement!