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buffalosoldier said:
My hair is not bra strap but it took about 4 years to go from 2 inches to below collar boneish. The point I wanted to make was that I never remotely paid any attention to how long it was or how fast it was growing. I just washed it every other day and got on with my life. It is only now that I am trying to really grow it and want it long.
So my advice to you would be to look after your hair but almost forget about it if that makes any sense. It is obviously growing so just continue to look after it and keep it healthy. Maybe keep it in braids off and on. Or find some nice ways to wear it short.
I"m from England too so a nice British hello to you
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I agree with Nyambura and Buffalosoldier about not paying attention and "forgetting" about how fast it's growing. In the past, I was not so focused on my hair (mainly because I didn't know anything about it anyway) I just let it be. People would come up to me and say, "How does it feel to have long hair?" or "I like your length, what did you do?", or "Look at all that hair!" Now, I had no hair regime to speak of and my hair was unhealthy and heat-damaged but it still grew, as it will. It always surprised me when I'd get a comment like that because I had "forgotten" to pay attention to my hair growth and like magic, it was a lot longer all of a sudden! Then I'd notice the length, admire it then do something silly and the next thing I know, it was breaking off. That was my
old pattern.
I think what happens (and I'm guilty of this, especially since I've been on this board! LOL!) is that some of us are repeatedly digging up a seed we've planted to see how it's growing and it seems like it's slow or nothing's happening. If we continue with our hair regimes, vitamins, scalp massages, exercise, etc. and then just let it be, it will flourish.
I think in the process of "letting go" of the need for our hair to grow faster or longer, it will do just that and maybe even surprise us with amazing hair growth!