Mrs.TheBronx
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i agree Shimmer with your post. this is a good break down of the definition of porn and according to the definition of porn or pornography, what OP and her husband want to do doesn't fit the bill, meaning it wouldn't be technically classified as such.
pornography: creative activity (writing or pictures or films etc.) of no literary or artistic value other than to stimulate sexual desire
As for the word "porn", it is a diminuitive of pornography, which is derived from the Greek pornografias ("place for writing about prostitutes".)
because there is no prostitution taking place in the marriage bed, i don't see what the problem is. now you may want to look at some underlining issues of why your spouse wants to create a video and watch it. does he have a past of watching/engaging in pornographic material? this could be a urge to satisfy something that is being suppressed.
and if it is, then you don't want to open Pandora's box. people(especially men) have a way of manipulating a situation to there advantage, gaining your trusting and misguiding you to allow your guard down. pray and be on your guard my sister in Christ.
Thanks Short, that is something to lookin to.. could be an innocent fantasty tho too, but we shall c!