Afro|Psychedelicdisiac
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So Friday, I have a hair appointment b/c in my opinion, I think i'm going through a hair crisis. I haven't been at the salon for some weeks now, but the last time I was there I had a relaxer. I have been getting relaxers every time I go to the salon and now that I read so much about how "bad" relaxers are for your hair, I was trying to stay away from them.
So when I called my hairstylist and told her that I wanted to stay away from relaxers, she asked me if I wanted to go natural and I said yes. Well after that she told me that my hair was really short in the back of my head from the last time she seen me and getting a relaxer was best. She asked me did my hair grow out some since the last time. I told her that my hair was growing out some, but it was still breaking off some-And to add on to to that, there still were some 'spots' in the back of head (and some at that the top) that still hasn't grown in (I don't know whether this is due to excessive combing or the relaxers, I truely believe that it is.).
My hair in the back is short, yes-so I don't know what will happen with my hair on Friday. She said that I still might need a relaxer but she will have to see what condition my hair is. I'm dreading the worst-a relaxer to my short hair. I don't really want it-but is it some truth to what my hairstylist said? Do I really need a relaxer on my short hair? I really would like to go natural and I don't think that would ever be possible with a relaxer. Seeing as though this is my first time trying to maintain my hair on my own, I don't know which direction to take to have natural growing hair.
I have photos on my profile if you want to see the condition of my hair, but you would have to add me.
Advice, advice, advice!
So Friday, I have a hair appointment b/c in my opinion, I think i'm going through a hair crisis. I haven't been at the salon for some weeks now, but the last time I was there I had a relaxer. I have been getting relaxers every time I go to the salon and now that I read so much about how "bad" relaxers are for your hair, I was trying to stay away from them.
So when I called my hairstylist and told her that I wanted to stay away from relaxers, she asked me if I wanted to go natural and I said yes. Well after that she told me that my hair was really short in the back of my head from the last time she seen me and getting a relaxer was best. She asked me did my hair grow out some since the last time. I told her that my hair was growing out some, but it was still breaking off some-And to add on to to that, there still were some 'spots' in the back of head (and some at that the top) that still hasn't grown in (I don't know whether this is due to excessive combing or the relaxers, I truely believe that it is.).
My hair in the back is short, yes-so I don't know what will happen with my hair on Friday. She said that I still might need a relaxer but she will have to see what condition my hair is. I'm dreading the worst-a relaxer to my short hair. I don't really want it-but is it some truth to what my hairstylist said? Do I really need a relaxer on my short hair? I really would like to go natural and I don't think that would ever be possible with a relaxer. Seeing as though this is my first time trying to maintain my hair on my own, I don't know which direction to take to have natural growing hair.
I have photos on my profile if you want to see the condition of my hair, but you would have to add me.
Advice, advice, advice!
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