I am recently relaxed but the bantu knot out is still an everyday style for me. I've been using ORS molding pudding but my hair gets hard and breaks off with this stuff. What product can I use that wont make my hair hard but still keep a little hold at least. I love having soft fluffy curls but I don't want them to fall at the end of the day. My main concern is health and growth right now and losing hair like I did yesterday from that stuff is not an option. Also I should mention that I prefer doing the knot out on dry hair because I like fuller look.