tocktick
Well-Known Member
if someone is too embarrassed to say what caused their set-back, i think it's insensitive and rude to continually ask when that member has said multiple times that they do not want to say. this was going on in the recent set-back thread. the member had already disclosed enough details by saying she was under stress and intentionally caused her own set-back. do people want to know what caused the stress, how she did it etc? why? not knowing the full details doesn't stop people from learning from her mistakes or offering her good advice.
imo, sometimes people don't really want to know the cause because they think it can help lhcf but just because they are plain nosy. imo, people should only disclose what they want to. we have enough info here to know what not to do to your hair to cause a set-back.
imo, sometimes people don't really want to know the cause because they think it can help lhcf but just because they are plain nosy. imo, people should only disclose what they want to. we have enough info here to know what not to do to your hair to cause a set-back.